He Was SO In Love, I Was Hesitant, He Pulled Away, I Realized How Much I Love Him, He Pulled Away & Dumped ME?!

Let me see if I can take a crack at this, alright sounds like you come off as a bit over the top with your confidence, which some people see as arrogant and at least somewhat vain, however my personal guess is that you tend to feel bad about your self-image so you try harder than many people do to be and feel as though you can say that. No, I'm not going after you for that or anything, however I'd guess that being this confident may have upset your boyfriend which caused him to say things like "you think your so great". Also, it comes back to a guys ego, if he thinks you feel completely wonderful about yourself he may feel more insecure about himself and or less likely to try to compliment you (many guys see this as a form of showing their masculinity while showing they care for a woman by complimenting her).

I would bet that he still has feelings for you, HOWEVER either feels differently (possibly very depressed and emotional) not just because of the medication and not having you around while he was recovering from surgery, that may have actually pushed him to abusing the medication to begin with. Or, he's got to feeling so hurt by how long it's taken you to give time to him that he's trying to push you away and convince himself that he no longer loves you just so he won't have to hurt anymore.

All guys have egos; big, small, obese, thin, nerdy, even feminine "girly" guys have egos and a sense of ownership/protection with the women they are with, you talking and shmoozing with more people than him is a big hit to any man's ego that truly cares about a woman. And him ignoring you and things like that is a guy's (quiet) way of saying "hey that hurts, am I really not that important to you?"

Depending on how long it's been since you tried contacting him, I'd say instead of just letting it go really go after him, but not the same way, let him know that he means so much to you AND that you're TRYING to be a better girlfriend for him, and that you want to be there for him, especially knowing what he's likely going through after his surgery. If he's still even slightly recovering I'd suggest getting him something to help emphasize you are there for him AND YOU MEAN IT! Possibly a small gift and a card with a hand-written personal message in it to him.

However, if it's been more than a few months since you talked I'd recommend trying to move on and find another guy to love that'll love you the way you deserve to be loved.

Hope this answer helps, and best of luck to you.

One to put in a term your depressed and it wasn't really you it was your job. Take it from his point of view. You rather work and get filthy rich from your job then spend time with him. He feels ignored like his opion doesn't matter or he just doesn't matter to you. This is rough because he's trying to make you choose your job or him. Sit down and watch devil wears prada and keep your attention to the main characters relationship with her boyfriend crumbled because she had to keep that job. You'll understand then and these two lines are true "money can't buy happiness" and love is a two way street not a one way highway." sry if I was a little to blunt with you.

You claim you're a rad chick.. and good looking? Wow.. Just how vain are you?

he's a selfish arse whole, roles reversed, would that same things happen. doubt it.

i think you shouldnt call him at all as bad as it hurts just let him contact you and see how he acts if he wants a second chance make him work for it don't take him back that easy

Any guy who says things like, "you think you're so great" has a problem with your success. Medication or no medication.

You are not the "perfect" girl now because you have lost weight and got a better job. If he likes or doesn't like you based on those things, he is a shallow jerk.

You talk a LOT about your looks. What are you going to do when you don't look so perfect? Are you going to think that you deserve to lose him? You need to stop being so hard on yourself. There are other things about you that I bet people like. You need to stop thinking so much about your looks because if you don't you will be miserable.

This guy does not treat you well. You said he ignored you for a month. He got mean and "retaliated" when you were successful at work rather than discussing his problem with your schedule like a mature adult. Move on. He is making you feel like you are not good enough and he is not acting like a man should, but like a spoiled brat!