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A relationship with a soon to be divorced women?

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kglock92 (Age:30 to 35)     When: Over a year ago
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I, met a married women who is going through a divorce I moved in with her after 2 months of phone chatting. Her soon 2 be ex husband is awaiting trial on his way to prison she still haven't filed the paper work after 5 months of there separation started being together and the first two months were mind blowing she started getting and acting different after the 2 month she has 6 kids not by him only one was his 2 sets of twins and a 13 year old they all liked me alt I looked passed all that Her beauty blinded alt of signs and she was one of the best I had in bed everything was good,she start hanging out with her lady friends after the second month staying gone all day and even stayed over night saying she was to drunk to drive home I say eat take a shower and a short nap and get your but t home she was suppose2 call me back let me know what she was gone do after I told I wasn't feeling her stay out all night she did anyway and had a attitude when she arrived through out the whole day,didn't want to be touched even sexually that was a sign 4 Me really fell deep for this lady she treated me like a king in the beckoning of the relationship, Other than that I sure wished it could of worked out. She was very good with my daughter treated her as her own I looked at that is something important. After her husband called a week later she went to the garage to talk to him she tells me he just wanted to talk to the kids we argued I told her I wouldn't let them be around or talk to him he is a pedophile he raped a 16 year old so yes he is one. Well we argued then it got bigger and next thing you know she put me out and I didn't get my check till 11 days later .I went from Texas to California to be with her we cheated on and off since 2007 I am originally from California so lucky I knew people there but the cold part I had my 3 year old daughter with me she back in Texas now and so am I


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  • the-love-guru
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    Over a year ago
    So you're living with a soon-to-be divorced woman? This means she's still married. What are you doing living with her? The entire situation is messy and emotionally unhealthy. Get your own space, and try to sort things out. But sometimes, things are so challenging, that it's a sign they aren't meant to work out.

    Take some time and think it over. There's a large potential for many people to get hurt!
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Thanx
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    Over a year ago
    PS: About your question regarding her scam and charges being brought on her. You did not explain what the scam is so I can't tell you what will happen but if charges are brought up, the police may want you to testify as a witness so I hope you are prepared for that one. PSS: She probably already has another guy on the hook as we speak.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      They come from the county of san bernadino...in california..... her brother gets 800 of it cause he's so called supposed to be watchin them while she's at work and school...
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I still don't know what the scam is about. Does she actually have children at the house that she watches during the day and gets paid for? Where do the checks come from?
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      She has a scam that has something to do with child care and she supposely have a business of health care or sum bs all I know she's gettin 4000 a month and they think she has a business do you think they will continue to give her the check every month after I dropped a dime on her? will she have 2 pay it back? jail?>
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      PSSS: Never get involved with a married woman. The divorce papers have to be final. And never pick up and leave to move in with someone you haven't really met face to face and spent a great deal of time with. Learn from these lessons.
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    Over a year ago
    You posted your story before. I remember writing to you. She is a liar, a cheater, a drunk and a cold-hearted ice-queen to kick you out of the house when she knew you had no money and a young child to worry about. She is also a scam artist. So what is your question? There is no turning back and getting back with this one. She is off the wall. There is a saying, "you are the company you keep." There is nothing good that could ever come out of that relationship. Be glad it is over. There are people in this world that are called "sociopaths." They use others in order to benefit themselves and have no conscience. If you have nothing to offer then you are not useful to them and they can turn on you in a heartbeat: The signs are: 1. Gibb and Superficial Charm 2. Manipulative and Conning 3. Grandiose Sense of Self 4. Pathological Lying 5. Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt 6. Shallow Emotions 7. Incapacity for Love 8. Irresponsibility/Unreliability 9. Promiscuous Sexual Behaviour 10. Lack of Realistic Life Plan - Parasitic Behaviour 11. Criminal or Entreprenaurial Versitality See any connection here?
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  • Littletad
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    Over a year ago
    You should have waited til she got her things in order. That means her divorce.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Your right but I didn't want to loose her while waiting to a nother guy.
  • wanacot
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    Over a year ago
    This sounds like all kinds of trouble. If I were you, I'd stay away from this woman. She has too much baggage and her life is an emotional roller coaster right now. Worry about looking after yourself and your daughter first, then find a stable woman to make part of your family.
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