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Guys....Would you ever go after an ex that broke up with you because you needed to get your life together?

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sthrnsweeti (Age:18 to 24)     When: 20 days ago
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Would you ever go after an ex that broke up with you because you needed to get your life together?

Me and my ex broke up because he needed to figure out his life and I couldn't wait around for him because I felt like he couldn't be the man I needed him to be at the moment...truth is, I love him and when we were together he told me he loved me to...i guess I'm just wondering if there's a chance he'll come back


Update: Maybe I didn't make it clear but I had tried to be there for him,support him,etc. His way of dealing with things is to shut down and figure it out on his own. Up until the last month we were together things were great between us    20 days ago

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CaptainFrost
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CaptainFrost      When: 20 days ago

i think you were right to break up with him
a guy has to have some requirements for you to stay with him


but I don't think I would go back to an ex that broke up with me
for this reason.

Its this thing in the back of our minds that says, she didn't want to be
together for the tough times, and now that we are living good and
everything is fun and we are happy, she wants to worm her way back in.

we prefer girls to help us through whatever problems we have rather than
her say ill be back when its fun again.

If a guy has sorted his life out, it also probably means he can attract other
girls and isn't really thinking much about the old stuff.

When things are better people tend to look forward rather than backwards
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Answerer Oh ye, to answer the question,

yea sure there's a chance you can get back together
theres always a chance for anything

u may have to go to him though.
dont expect him to just 'come back' - 20 days ago
 

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Hippy
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Hippy      When: 19 days ago
an x is a x for reason,
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secretwish
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secretwish      When: 20 days ago
I am in the EXACT situation. I need to hear the answer too.

Sthrnsweeti, message me if you want to talk / share stories.
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