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She dumped me but emails and texts still. What does she want?

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Johnny66 (Age:36 to 45)     When: 18 days ago
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these are the last emails,
Hi Johnny,

You don’t have to thank me. I’m sorry to hear about Bobby and David. I wonder why? That’s weird. They probably feel abandoned. That’s great about the kids. Did you see all of them? Did you meet the foster parents? So who are you hanging out with? Your bike friends? (knew it!) ha ha.

Things here are better now that I got paid but I don’t know, it sucks because, as you know, my friends are guys. When you go out with guys and they know they aren’t going to get anywhere, after a while they pick up chicks and then I’m forgotten, happens that way all the time.. ha ha.. it sucks but it’s what I have. Last night I met one of the girlfriends and she was a tad snooty.. Girls are always tougher than guys to get along with. I miss Wendy but I’m not going to chase her, I feel pathetic. All the guys do is scream at the college football games and I just sit there, but I get so crazy with being home ALL DAY and ALL night I’d rather watch them scream at gay football and people watch then be at home anymore.

As far as the text last night it went like this… I was out with the same crowd and it’s SO obvious that I’m just a friend that some random guy at the bar tried to pick me up when I walked past him. When I blew him off and joined my friends again Greg asked. “What’s wrong with that guy?” I said, “Nothing, I am just not interested in anyone or anything right now.” And he said “Sounds to me like you are still in love with John.” That was it, the whole story. You’re right, my wall is still up though.

What are you going to be for Halloween? I hope you have fun. I’m going to be Rogue, she’s an XMen. She has mind control. Not sure what I’m doing but whatever.

I’m supposed to talk to Jim next week about working there, it is SUPPOSED to be more organized and there will be changes but I am only 1 of 3 that are welcome to work for them.. We’ll see. I don’t know

Great that you’re working out and doing all that sh*t and I’m sorry you’re miserable. Soon it will be over. Well, I hope you have fun tonight and tomorrow night with your bike friends. Be safe.

Love
*****
Then I sent this,

I'm not hanging with bikes ever again! Please stop always assuming negative thoughts,I'm taking care of my divorce, It has been every day lawyers and doctors,I'm hanging with some friends of mine that are married and one of them promotes bands and there's tons going on in Salem this weekend,actually Dave and bobby are going to meet me tonight,I'm sure you will meet a guy its obvious that you are lonely and horny plus being out all the time ,I hope you really do meet the man of your dreams, but you still do love me! and I still do want to meet for dinner ! If that's even a thought anymore.

and she returned this,

You’re so gay. I JUST SAID I WASN’T INTERESTED IN ANYONE OR ANYTHING YOU THICK SKULLED MOTHER FU**ER.. ha ha.. We will meet for dinner and sparks will fly again I’m sure.
Goodnight my love. Have fun.


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Reeses-pieces777
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Reeses-pieces777      When: 11 days ago
um ok she sounds quite odd and she sounds very confused. it's like she wants to flirt with you still and if you want something out of her, why not ask her directly? I'd be confused if an ex sent me that.
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erikaamariee      When: 11 days ago
she wants to be friends, duh!
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itssimplekeepitreal      When: 18 days ago
string you along and give herself an emotional jello cushion. cause when people break up, if it is civil, it allows for room to relax and gradually leave your parnter and adapt to the new found 'non closeness'. and well, you're like her plan B until she can find a plan A. you sure you wanna be a back up? she seems keen to keep in contact, don't be fooled but her caring words... as well, electronic communication is different to face to face as it lacks that personal quality. she seems to want some form of closure from you. I'm sure if you play your cards right you can get sex from her. but what YOU need to do is figure out what YOU want. stop letting her be the picker and this time YOU choose what you want from her. cause you have every right to shut her out of your life if you wish, use her for sex or stay friends (which I don't think will work is physical and emotional attraction is still there). that is the thing. if you're gunna be the ex that is always avail, she will use you no doubt. either cut her off, or go in for a re-dive. I'd cut her off, cause mate, seriously, you guys broke up for a reason. and I reckon you could do better than a chick who can't make up her mind, not even to visit you in person to talk, instead through some random horny as email she typed up cause she was bored. do yourself a a favour and move on.
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Question Asker The closure from me would be my divorce papers are getting stamped this friday maybe? she said we would meet for dinner and put everything all the issues behind her. - 18 days ago
 

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Anonymous User      When: 12 days ago
Rogue doesn't have mind control. Just sayin'.
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Stanthemilkman      When: 12 days ago
She seems messed up, you be well rid of her.
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wally      When: 18 days ago
my adivce for you not to waste your time with her. email or txt at all. because she's saying it in her email and txt she didn't find a guy and been ignored by her friends. don't let her play with your feelings.
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