Wheres all the good females?

Actually females cheat just as much as males, not more. I was watching The Buzz and in marriages women infidelity is at 45-50% and men is at 55-60% so it's about the same. Both men and women are f***ed up lol. I think the amount of decent people in general is rare, regardless of gender. I think the better question is where are all the good PEOPLE.

I have morals and I'm innocent but most guys don't want me because they consider me either a goody goody, stuck up (I guess not sleeping around makes me snobby) or boring. And since I don't wear provocative clothes or look like a Barbie I'm not worth getting to know.

I'm a little confused by your statistics. Because your first statistic means 73% of women haven't cheated. Or one the other statistic, 57% of women haven't cheated. So both studies show that more than half of the women out there don't cheat.

I have never cheated. I have repeatedly told men online that I do not speak to men in private out of respect for my partner. I have even been in situations where the man I was with was so desperate for my constant love that if he felt like it changed even slightly, he would flirt hardcore with other women cause he wanted to make me jealous and love him again. We had to have many talks about how that is never the way to get love. When given the opportunity to do the same to him, simply out of spite, I didn't. I would hardly even talk about guys I knew because it made him so depressed to hear me talk about other men. I'm not saying that's right because that behavior never is. I'm just saying I made every attempt to be faithful and considerate, even when it wasn't being shown to me. Not because I wanted to be walked on but because I hate game playing and I like knowing that I am making good and decent choices in a relationship. And being kind to another person. So there are good women in the world. I don't assume I am an anomaly. I assume there are many, many women who just want to be decent people in a relationship.

I think the saying comes from the fact that women usually wait for men to ask them out. So when they get in a relationship with a terrible person they think "Why was I given such a horrible person? Why don't any good men ask me out?" She is asked out by very specific kinds of men and then she wonders why they all treat her poorly. But because men ask women out, they typically either hunt down a good woman before they ask her out or if she ends up being an awful person they probably think they shouldn't have asked her out to begin with. I don' t know if it's true or not but men might take some of the blame and think "I just need to look for better girls" instead of wondering where the good women are.

whoa. where do you get your stats? where did the 75% come from lol? in my few relationships, I've been cheated on and I'm attractive & educated & I have a moral compas-i've never cheated and I 've been too busy to find the one for me-I would like to find a guy who appreciates my education and my character more so than how I look so I believe it's a matter of perspective.
and btw not all innocent females have morals. and how do you define morals? and you think the entire male subset of people are hopeless because they can't find the 'right' female? there are a lot of assholes who are males who don't care about girls leaving a lot of girls to be senile or hating guys in general.
How is it that females have more choices? depends on how you're percieve and how you perceive I supose.

at the same time I could ask where are the guys who DON'T generalize females and/or think they know everything about sexuality? [I certainly wouldn't be able to find one if I just looked at you...]

We are out there. Just far and few bewtween. As for us getting men easier... I think both men and women have their issues finding quality.

There are three times as many single women in American churches as single men. If I were in the market for a good female, I'd start there ;)

Fascinating. I've heard "where are the good men at!?" But whenever a man asks that then he's shouted down for being shallow. Nevermind that he could be asking for where the nice women are, or where the women who won't lie to him are. I think it's because of the old world view that women are naturally morally superior yet mentally inferior that we're starting to come back from as a society (And thank god, pedestals are worthless.)

what a great question!

the main difference that I see is that when men are out of line, we're penalized (and rightly so). everyone says "he messed up."

but when women are out of line, the lines are redrawn. people tend to excuse her actions and look for reasons that she's somehow not her fault. there are a lot of cultural myths that say how women are kinder, gentler, more loving than men. and it's b.s. this widespread cultural denial of women who do hides the facts that women commit at least as much physical abuse in domestic violence, women commit _more_ emotional abuse in relationships, women commit at least 25% of child sex abuse, and women commit the overwhelming majority of child abuse and child homicides. read Patricia Pearson's book "when she was bad: the myth of female innocence" for more info.

who the hell is annette lawson?

This is just pure ranting and your divorce statistic is false.

It's been a while since you got laid hasn't it.