My boyfriend of three years broke up with me because he felt like he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I admit it was moving fast over the past year and we just got to comfortable and bored with each other. I know this is the end and he won't come back(I can't hope for the best and have faith that he will because I don't want to disappoint myself). It's been a month since the break up and we have only spoken a couple of times, just to ask how each other was doing. I logged into Facebook and there are soo many pictures of him out at different bars with different girls. Did that three years we spent together mean nothing to him? Is he just enjoying his single life or is he throwing it in my face?
I am going through very much the same thing currently with a few minor differences and know all about relationships and getting too comfortable etc. Its so horrible when you are so into someone and work so hard to love them and accept them that a huge piece of the pie is gone when they choose to finally leave your life.
You need to understand that Facebook is nothing more than just a social peacoocking website for people around our age. Everybody is obsessed that they look as great as they possibly can or they won't tag themselves in any pictures. The point of web sites like that IS to make people jealous and insecure about themselves. I'm not sure having him as a friend is the best thing for you right now because he knows you will look and doesn't have a problem showing you he has moved on. It is all a facade to show everybody that you are comfortable, happy, sexy, and most importantly surround yourself with other happy, sexy, and comfortable people as well. Think of it as a billboard, you would never put up a crappy picture on a billbaord right because that picture represents you.
Bottom line is, he might want you to notice and get jealous just for his ego, or he might just want to be the loop and do as everybody else. It is tricky since I don't know more about the situation.
How did things end. It seems civil since you guys still somewhat keep in touch.
If I had to guess, I'd have to say that he's been in the process of moving on, you know what I mean?
Guys aren't famous for being sensitive about how they broadcast their lifestyle, so I doubt that he's trying to snub you by being in these pictures. And, chances are, he isn't updating them in the first place. Someone else might find the picture and tag him.
I guess one question you might want to ask yourself is whether or not he's in more pictures than he was in when he was dating you.
Facebook is pretty good about letting you control what items show up for you from someone's feed. I'd try creating an "ex" list, so you can manage exactly what you want to hear from him. - 18 days ago
It doesn't really matter what his reasons are. What's important is how you can move on. Cut all ties with him and delete his FB if you have to. If you decided not to, please just don't check his Facebook.
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