How do I break up with him and get him out?

Uh here's a clue put all his stuff in box that he paid for nice and neat leave it outside your door or inside the apt, now the sticky situation is stuff you bought jointly your going to have to split it up evenly somehow, and finally you change the locks carry pepper spray and or a small butterfly knife and life goes on.

I would definitely do it in a restaurant or someplace public so he won't get abusive and if he does there will be people around to help.

Another thing is don't walk away from people when they're talking to you because its rude and unfair (I'm assuming that he listens to what you have to say).

People normally get defensive if you blame them for something so try not to point your fingers and you won't have an argument. Instead just tell him why you think you're not right for him (thats my trick) kinda like "its not you its me". Just mention how you guys fight all the time without blaming it on anyone and tell him that that's not how you picture a relationship to be.

If he asks you to give him another chance just tell him that its not him and that its because you're tired and that you need to be alone for "awhile". That's all I have for now if I think of more ill answer again. GL

Is he working to help you with something in the house. If so you should tell him that "he better change the way he treats you" or tell him you don't like him seriously not laughing and if he doesn't want to leave the house, tell him that you don't really want him in the house because you don't love him. That should fix the problem.

You really need to tell him that you're not passionate about him and that you don't feel any fire between the two of you. He won't be able to argue with your feelings. I think if you break up with him, moving out will come naturally. If anything, you have the legal right to your property and you can take him to court for trespassing if he doesn't leave of his own volition.