I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years ago about two and a half weeks ago because it was a bad relationship. He’s only contacted me once, on Monday, and he called two or three times and we had great talks then he said he would call me back the next day but never did, and I still haven’t heard from him. I do miss him a lot and I really thought things between us would work out but it seems that it’s really over and I think he called just because he missed having someone to be there but not me. I’d guess that he's out having a ton of fun and hooking up or talking with a lot of other girls now. I miss him and I keep looking at my phone and just see day after day go by without him calling back. I'm trying not to think about it, but I'm so hurt. I feel like he's already moved on and I can't understand how he could have. I hate that he called me once and hasn’t called again and I feel kind of used too. I'm having trouble accepting the fact that things are really over after 3 years with him and after thinking we would get married (he always talked about it) and be together always. I just feel like he's already moved on and I'm hurting and don’t know how to deal with it all.
Update: thank you both so much, I can't begin to explain how much better I feel after reading your responses
14 days ago
I think he is waiting on you to tell him how you really feel. you do your part...he must do his. if he really does love you he will do his part and not take advantage of how you feel agents you. You two need to appreciate one another because love doesn't come around everyday in our lives so you two better take advantage of it when its really there. You seem like a loving type of girl...he must be also. Its no ones fault to why you two are not together, no on can blame anyone. the real fault is you both, and both of you need to sit down and speak about how much you two truelly love each other.
Now, if he CANT take this step...im sorry but you have chosen the wrong person...and god will guide you very well out of this heart burning pain of being abandoned. I know its hard to believe there's actually people in this world who can move on like nothing ever mattered...i know this destroys your pride, your heart, ur will to smile everyday. But you must know...you are not a type of person like them...you are a true loving being to the end. Now you must be one of them who has to move on...but at least you know deep down you tried everything possible to love him...instead of living your life like them who never "cared" and has love with limits (which isn't love at all). Im also going threw a lot of pain...im learning to have faith...patience...i know some one will show up that will appreciate my true love till the end...not only 3 years. Now I'm so scared of being in pain once again...im so complicated with other females...u will also be but with males...u will feel lonely at times...but you can never forget that god will cure u. Have "Faith...and Patience".
go0d luck...i hope he really does care and love you.
He probably feels the same way, and talking to him will only slow down the progress to recovery. You were with the bloke for 3 years, you can't expect to feel any better after 2 and a half weeks. I think to get over a relationship properly it takes about 2-3 months.
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