I've been dating this guy off and on since last summer. I broke up with him last weekend. It was a stupid mistake, but I was really upset that he chose to hang out with his friends on Halloween night instead of coming out with me. Don't get me wrong, I don't care that he hangs out with his friends. I only ask to see him once or twice a week. The rest of the time he's out drinking and working on cars and stuff. I'm not the jealous type. Anyways, I had a babysitter for my kids, and was all dressed up in this tight, short costume. Why would he let me go out, on the Las Vegas Strip, looking the way I did without him?! I was really upset about it and texted him that I give up. I didn't talk to him until he texted me the next night. I told him I didn't mean it, but he said it was okay, he just couldn't believe I broke up with him over text. Since then, he's been texting me and calling me saying that he knows I miss him, and that he's just checking on me to see if I'm okay. I told him that I appreciate the thought, but it's making it hard for me to get over him. He still kept contacting me. Finally, yesterday I texted him saying that not to call me just because he thinks I miss him. If he calls me or texts me it should because he wants to talk to me. I told him not to feel sorry for me because it makes me feel bad. I also said that we both made choices in our relationship that led us to where we are, and we either need to talk about it or move on. He said he understood, and that he misses me and my kids. I just want to know what he wants from me. Does he really want to be broken up or not?
Anyways, I had a babysitter for my kids, and was all dressed up in this tight, short costume. Why would he let me go out, on the Las Vegas Strip, looking the way I did without him?! I was really upset about it and texted him that I give up."
You seem to be the one who tried to make him jealous, playing games, then breaking up. Do you really want to be broken up or not?
I'm not trying to play games with him. We had planned to go out that night for like 3 weeks, but when it came time to go out he bailed on me. I do love him, and I want to work things out, but if that's not what he wants then I know I can get over him in time. - 14 days ago
you dumped him... but you also talk to him after dumping him. in my world, we describe your behavior as a "mixed message."
and if you dumped him, why do you care whether or not he wants to be broken up? dumping someone is a unilateral decision. your question is as confusing to me as if a boss fires a worker who wants to stay on the job, then the boss asks "does he really want to be fired?"
your question doesn't make much sense to me. perhaps I'm missing something...
A little more background... I'm a single parent. It's hard for me to make time to spend with him without my kids. When I do, half the time he bails on me. I hang out with him and his friends almost every weekend, but he almost never goes out with me and my friends on the rare occasions that I do go out with them. I feel like this is what he wanted, but him calling/texting all the time now is confusing. I don't want him to be with me because it's what I want. I want it to be what he wants too - 14 days ago
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I'm more confused than ever.
Good luck!
God bless! - 14 days ago
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