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I was in a 2 year relationship, she cheated and we cut all ties. Should I ever expect her back in my life?

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Xplic1T (Age:18 to 24)     When: 16 days ago
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This has really been a bad situation. Essentially after the cheating took place we still tried to see each other and have had sex. She just didn't want to be alone so she briefly wanted me back and I bit because I thought it was a mistake. Then out of the blue some guy is interested in her and she has permanently cut all ties between us.

My question is, should I ever expect her to come back in my life? I've heard less is more in these types of situations but I genuinely do miss her and want her back in my life. Before we last spoke, she didn't want to entertain the thought of us back together which really hurt me.

So, all I can do is not contact her and hope for the best? Hello does anybody ever have a conscience ?


Update: Update - Its been 2 months since we officially broke up. About 3 weeks since we last got in contact.    16 days ago

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tallenblog      When: 16 days ago
Why would you want too? Clearly she didn't love you enough to respect your feelings and emotions. Lets face it, you were the rebound guy on yourself. You know, the guy you lead on and hook up with several times after a break up until you get the next steady boyfriend. Not only did she cheat on you, but then she used you until the next guy came along.

Forget about her. She'll never love or respect you the way you would want a woman to. There are way more eligible girls who would treat you like a prince just like we would expect you to treat us like princesses. "Get back on the horse"- In this situation I'm going to say "Get off of her horse, and find another."

Good luck.
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nique23 Nicely said . . . I agree with everything - 15 days ago

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Reeses-pieces777      When: 16 days ago
you have to move on and it's hard, it's only been 3 weeks- she might come back but you got to be mentally prepared.
i myself can't take anyone back after they've cheated-it was ok for them to have sex with someone and to me means I don't mean much to them at all-if I loved them, that would hurt me and I won't look back
for a while you will be thinking 'what if...we were together etc' that's normal-
but be aware of the facts
she's the one who jeopardized the trust in this relationship-looking at it from a non emotional perspective-if I was the guy, I'd have trouble trusting or investing my time in someone who's shown how fickle they really are
permanent means you don't think of her at all
for me, it took me a while to get over one of my ex bf's but now I'm free from wanting to be with thema nd grateful I can meet better guys
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Sexy-Senior-09      When: 16 days ago
Trust me. They always come back. Even if its not for the right reasons. For example, she gets a new boyfriend and they get in a fight and she contacts you for support. She'll eventually contact you when she needs something.
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