Ex problem

jus tell him leave you alone and go out with me sweet thang

u want 2 go out with me

You have to be rude because the guy is going insane. You need to tell him loud and clear how things are and that you no longer have feelings for him. When breakups happen and one person wants to stay in and the other wants out it can be rough. Your ex will stop eventually but just needs more of a clear message.

look I'm not just talking out of my ass here

my ex sister in laws ex boyfriend started off the same way

then he kicked in her door one night p*ss drunk

broke her jaw 2 of her ribs and fractured her collar bone

then he kneeled over her and cut off all her hair

then he went in the bedroom and threw her 6 month old at thew wall and left

no joke

people do some sh*t you would never expect

ive seen it my self

if you think that's bad

it was nothing compared to what the cops did to him when they caught him that night

after 3 months recovering in the hospital he then went on to serve a nice long term in jail

but was it worth it for her to let it go that far

probably not.

2 words

RESTRAINING ORDER!

It's time for a restraining order.

Listen VERY CLOSELY here dear. VERY CLOSELY...

DO NOT PLAY WITH THIS JERK! It is a very deadly behavior that he is exhibiting and you are in a far more dangerous position than you think. GET THAT IDEA OUT OF YOUR HEAD RIGHT NOW... You do NOT know him better than that and YES he COULD do that kind of thing!

If you don't immediately take the stance that this guy COULD be dangerous then you leave yourself venerable for the damages if he DOES get violent. Just remember this dearie... EVERY woman that was ever killed or seriously injured by a man that was so self absorbed that they couldn't accept the fact that the relationship was over said the same thing; "I don't want to be mean..."

I don't want to think that a guy would go to that extreme either... but considering the possible consequences you had BETTER take this as deadly seriously as it is!

be rude, and draw the liune already, get ya new boyfriend to set the line, he won't learn unless you spell it out!

Let me say.. I'm in this situation as well.. except it's my girlfriend and her ex... He hounded her so much with saying things like you don't deserve anyone better than me.. No one will love you and your two kids more than I ever will.. ect ect.

Well he eventually got into her mind so bad... that it led to him sleeping with her.. which is all that he wanted... Me and my girl are now suffering because I need to somehow find a way in my heart to forgive her for cheating.. What I can say is that I've been in the same situation as you, and it became so difficult to listen to them, because people in situations like these often become VERY deceiving, and often manipulate you into feeling wrong. Which is what happened in my situation. DON'T let him get the best of you. it's not easy to get a restraining order on someone but threaten him with it.. Put all your feelings aside for him because there was a reason you two split up to begin with.. If your happy with your boyfriend.. don't let someone take that away from you. Tell him that he's explained himself and you wish it worked out different but that he's not doing anything but causing you more issues...

If he cared about you, he would let you take your time to see if this is what you really want and if he pursues it inform him that you've been very kind and you don't want to have to call the authorities and file a harassment claim...
It sucks but what can ya do. :(

Poor guy you broke his heart. tell him why you left him, or don't talk to him at all.

he is still loving you & you the same.If not ur reply would not have been the one ur with which ur right now.U might have been still on a rude towards him.Might be you look for some things which you don't find in ur ex with ur bf.Be make sre before you make and break the relationships.

Exs are exs for a reason

You need to tell him 'why' it's over. Everyone deserves the truth. If you give him the 'truth', unless if he is in denial, he will leave you alone. Maybe you need to get him to 'see' these things. Remember, 'denial' and 'truth'. They affect and carry people very far, especially in this world we live in.

get a restraining order on him :)

He loves you. Did you leave him? If you did you left him for no reason, unless he cheated on u, But you think you can find better, you think the new guy is soo much better. But in reality. He's not. You guys haven't run into bumps yet, but when you do, you will think to yourself why did I leave the first guy for.

I think definitely tell him to stop. and if he keeps doing this, he's only hurting himself. try not to provoke anything but definitely tell him yeah it's over. and ignore til he gets tired. hopefully he wears out and leaves you alone for good.

just go ahead and be rude. the nice way isn't working so pull out the bitch card. you have that right. he is the one who is not respecting your wishes and trying to force his way back in your life so why would you feel bad about being mean to him? he'll really understand if you hurt his feelings seriously

Two things. One, get your boyfriend to address the problem. However he contacts you, let your man pick up the phone or communicate by whatever means to let him know that he needs to back off because it's over. Seeing as you already told him to step off and he won't, either having your boyfriend establish dominance and show that you are off the market or telling this guy you will call the police if he contacts you again and surefire ways to end this freakish behavior.

You have told him once what you want, he didn't listen. This is harassment. If necessary, contact the police. Why are you thinking to be nice to him? He is being hideous towards you. You told him to go away already didn't you? He is a bully. I wouldn't pay him any attention. Has he nothing better to do. What does your boyfriend think about this? Have you told him? Surely he can give you some support? If not, what kind of a boyfriend is he that let's his girlfriend be abused by an ex?!

First off are you sure you don't want anything to do with him? If you really want him out then tell him that sternly and never reply back to him again! Cut it off completely! Your gonna have to stick to it if he has a chance in believing it. If you can't then I would have to say that you don't really want things to end. It not going to do either of you any good to stay in this cycle. Break it!

If you've explained yourself clearly and in a concise matter, that's all you can do. You can talk to your phone company about blocking his number, otherwise set his number to auto reject (you can do it on your own phone). And if he is physically approaching you, you can tell him you are considering a restraining order. Only if you feel like you are in danger. That should be the very last resort. Sometimes people don't handle breakups very well (I've had a similar experience). Try to remain composed. The man sounds like he is crushed. But he needs to respect your new relationship, and that you are happy.

I hope you're able to settle the situation soon. Best of luck!