I was with him for almost a year and engaged for 3 months he didn't have a job for 4 months and I couldn't take supporting him and me by myself. I feel really bad but I think I was doing what was best for me.
Well most break ups and fighting with spouses is over money. But when you get married it says for sick and for poor. ,. Now arguing about it but the next day you try to fix it is ok, because we say stupid things when we mad. Now if you can't hang through that and help him out you really don't love him or you don't have enough strength with the both of you to pull through together. Well its your choice if you right or wrong, it doesn't matter what other people think. I mean you could have said I can't get married till you get a job I love you but you are really bring me down and I want to go up, I will help you as much as I can but you gotta find a job baby I can't do it for you, so we have to put off the wedding till we get things fixed ok because I don't want to go into a wedding with financial problems. K? But I love you. Good?
Thanks for the comment but I did try to talk to him about it and he said he was looking for a job and I he wasn't he would sit around doing nothing and I do love him and tried to talk to him but he don't wanna listen so I moved on. - 7 months ago
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Well I guess that will motivate him to get a job then he might look for you or say she didn't stick by my side so f*** it. When I date a chick I always ask them and see how they answer, hey if I lost everything and became broke and lost my job what would you do, and their answer will depend if I want to be with them or not. - 7 months ago
Well most break ups and fighting with spouces is over money. But when you get married it says for sick and for poor. ,. Now if you can't hang through that and help him out you really don't love him or you don't have enough strength with the both of you to pull through together. Well its your choice if you right or wrong, it doesn't matter what other people think. I mean you could have said I can't get married till you get a job I love you but you are really bring me down annd I wnat to go up, I will help you as much as I can but you gotta find a job baby I can't do it for you, so we have to put off the wedding till we get things fixed ok because I don't wnat to go into a wedding with financial problems. K? But I love you. Good?
YOUR ONLY 19. Geez and you are thinking about marriage already. Wow, you don't know that much about the world do you. Every dating website that I have ever been to has taught me one thing that I take with me everywhere. Those who marry at a VERY young age are divorced before they turn 30. I'm 26 and marriage is far from my mind. I'm thinking that the best time for me to get married is until I am mature enough to say why I want to spend the rest of my life with one woman who I have deep feelings for.
I think you made the right choice and I also think that you need to wait until after you turn 25 before making such decisions as marrying a guy you hardly know. The way I see any relationship is one year of dating before I can consider moving in with this other person and at least 6 months must pass by before I can consider proposing but that's just me. Again, only make this kind of decision until after you turn 25. You may think it is a long time but to everyone else it is definitely a decent time in your life when you are mature enough to make closer to correct decisions.
Whatever you feel is right, you can make your own decisions. If you love him and can't stop thinking about it you should mend up the relationship. What could you lose. And you should never leave your fiance for having money trouble because he trusted you to support him through the bad times, he would eventually find the money and the job, but if he was just mooching on you that is the only reason you should ever leave. If you love him, run to him.
Sounds like the right choice to me, mostly because of your age. But why didn't the guy have a job? Was he looking for work actively every day? Or was he just a slacker?
He was more of a slacker but when I first started dating him he was working then a couple months later he lost his job and looked for a job for a month and didn't do anything the rest of the time - 7 months ago
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Okay, so now is there any doubt you made the right choice? You wanna be supporting a slacker husband for the next 50 years? Didn't think so. You deserve better than that. Good Luck! - 7 months ago
Yes I did love him but I don't wanna be with someone who is not going to try to help money wise and make me do everything on my own it should be equal - 7 months ago
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