Okay so me and my boyfriend were dating for about 2 months, but suddenly we broke up. But he did it in a weird way. He just quit talking to me. He said he needed some space because we were too attached. But after about 2 weeks of "space" we decided to talk again. He would come over to my place on the weekends and we would occasionally go out on dates. He also would bring me home from school everyday. It seemed like it was getting close to "getting back together" This went on for about another 2 months. But a couple of days he stopped calling, coming over, and talking to me at school. He won't answer my phone calls, and only texts me back sometimes. I'm really confused and sad. I really love him and I just want us to get back together. And every time I try to talk to him about what happened he just says "i Don't Know" So should I just wait on him to call me or should I just forget about him?
Sounds like you are giving him all the power, in this, relationship? Is that what the two of you have or you have a relationship when "HE" feels he wants one. He decides when you talk, he decides when you go out, what's up with that? Maybe it's time for you to decide when you talk or hang out. Try it. Make a decision. If he is in one of those modes where he isn't treating you right. This is what you do. 1)Don't call him anymore. 2) If he decides he wants to call you again, DON'T call him back (no matter how much you want to) DON'T call him back!! Let him blow your phone up. Speak to him at school, if you want to, (not necessary) 3)Do not expect him to take you home from school, (as a matter-a-fact) don't let him see you to offer you a ride. 4) AVOID HIM, I guarantee you, he will treat you right, the only way that it will work is if you follow my instructions. YOU DECIDE. Don't let him decide. He should respect you, not mistreat you, follow this formula for at least a week, before you give in and talk to him. Remember don't give in before a week, it should work. or DUMP him.
You should forget about him. He does not like you as much as you like him. He might change his mind when you leave him alone, but he's probably not worth your time anyway.
What it seems like to me is that you have a loser on your hands and he's just playing with your heart. I think you should move on and if he comes around then good for you but if not then at least you wouldn't have been sitting around waiting for him.
You need to just let it go and move on! He is not worth your time! Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing his actions are affecting your life! B/c right now he knows you still want to be with him, he knows he can do whatever he wants and then come back to you when he feels like it! A LOT of guys are like this! And it takes a very long time for them to grow out of it! Move on - Show him that you don't need him - or even want him anymore! I can almost guarantee he will be calling you if you start ignoring him! Good Luck!
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