She acts like she hates me, talks about me when her friends (not sure if it's good or bad stuff), but then tells my friends she feels bad about being a bitch and I've caught her staring at me when she thought I wasn't looking more times than I could count. So what is up with her does she hate me, like me, or indifferent?
Update: We're in clubs together. She's my best friends sister so when I hang out with him I see her.
7 months ago
Update: I still like her
7 months ago
Update: My friend told her that I still have feelings for her and she said that didn't matter because she had a boyfriend. However, it was over aim and he told me that she kept not answering the questions she asked for 20 minutes (don't know what that means)
7 months ago
Update: Also today we crossed each other, she looked at me I looked at her, and then she walked away then I turned around to look at her and she was looking back too. I also saw her friends looking at me today! What the hell is up with her!?!
7 months ago
By her acting as if she hates you, she's trying to cover-up what she truly feels inside. Which is probably numerous things (grudge, remorse, love, confused) She doesn't know exactly how to express things so when she sees you, she probably ignores you or doesn't talk to you.
Obviously, when a girl talks to her friends about a guy, that means she still cares for him. And for the staring part. There you go, a big clue right there.
First off, how did you guys break up and why? I think you should take that into consideration. If it there were things that you didn't agree on and you guys fought a lot than there something called compromising! Try to work things out.
Also, try to talk to her. Obviously there's still some unsolved business between the two of you.
Her brother was treating her like crap for going out with me and they're really close. I could tell it was hurting her so I said she could break up with me since it was hurting her, but made it clear how much she mattered to me and how I didn't want to break up with her, only that I'd understand if she did. She then said yeah, but said it wasn't because of her brother but didn't give me a real answer when I asked. - 7 months ago
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I mean I would understand why a brother would react like that. As a brother he wants to protect his sis no matter how good the guy is. That's their nature.
Hm, your situation is very complicated. By her "beating around the bush" with her response, she's definitely hiding something. I wish I could help with more but relationships are ALWAYS complicated. Just give it time. - 7 months ago
Question Asker
Thanks for the response, I'm beginning to feel like she still has feelings for me, she's been doing a lot. Again thanks! - 7 months ago
Honestly, she probably talks about you to her friends cause she is worried about what they think of her. I mean, when you break up with someone the usually thing is to bad talk them. Don't mean she loves you or hates you. You have to ask her how she feels. But why do you care?
What do you care what she thinks? I mean, Your in a spot, your best friend is your ex girlfriends brother, but your concerned about whether she hates you, or what she's saying, or her looking at you. Are you over her? Do you care if she's looking at you? , Do you care if she hates you? Do you care if she is talking about you? Nobody can really tell you what she's feeling but her. You seem to be more concerned about what she is feeling instead, of what your feeling, but then again, maybe you do know what you are feeling, so why not try asking her out, and the both of you sit down, throw everything out there on the table, and be honest about what you both are REALLY feeling. If she's staring at you, and you notice it, that means you had to be looking at her. Your listening at stuff people say she's saying about you, notice the magic word "Listening" why are you listening to that? Talk to her, find out what's up with her "sprinkling salt on you behind your back", ask her if she hates you, and tell her, "You noticed her, noticing you. See what happens, you might find you both are still feeling each other. Good Luck.
This is a tough one to answer. Can you explain the situation a bit more? For example, how does your ex see you? Clubs? Social circle? What's the context there? Basically we need more info to help you out.
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When: 7 months ago
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