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Should I give him another chance?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 7 months ago
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My boyfriend and I were dating for about 1 year and last week I found out apparently he got drunk and slept with some girl. So I dumped him. He is in 5 of my classes and I still really like him and he says he still loves me and that it was an accident. I miss him but I don't know if we should date again.

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Jorgiecholo (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
Well I am the type of person that has always believed that cheating is not right under any circumstances. Obviously you are hurt by it but no one can tell you not to or to get back with him that is soley your choice and your going to have to make this tough decision on your own just keep in mind that everyone makes mistakes he obviously realized that he made a big mistake by sleeping with this girl while he was drunk. If you can find it in your heart to forgive him do it. Let him know that it hurt you very bad what he did and make sure that he knows you don't at all approve of anything that took place. If he really wants you back and loves you so much then he will do any and everything in his power to try his best to make it up to you. Follow your heart. It will make sure you do what's best for you =]]
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whatmenthink (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
The trust is broken. Its possible for it to work, but its not likely.

The only way this could possibly work is that you completely forgive him and never bring it up (which is not a choice. You will either be able to do this or unable. PERIOD) AND He needs to figure out why he cheated. Was it because he needs more sex? Is he sexually starved? Is it because he doesn't respect you? Is it because you treat him disrespectfully so he looks for that respect elsewhere?

The bottom line is this. If the two of you were in a loving and respecting relationship, this wouldn't happen. Find out what's really going on. Be honest, not stupid.

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Accident? "I fell and my dick slipped". It will happen again, find another guy.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Ok, I have been cheated on many times, that's why I post this anonymously, that and the girl I am with now has cheated on me and I stayed with her, I trust her and all but sometimes I get worrysome.

So if you don't mind worrying every time he goes out and parties stay with him,
unless you can tell he's really sorry and it won't happen again, cause you might just know him well enough to tell it was an accident.


its all your decision.

Everything happens for a reason.
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Question Asker Thank u:) lol. So I hope things get better with your girlfriend - 7 months ago
Answerer They are already better, she knows that if it happens again that its over, and she's really honest so I don't have to worry about her lying - 7 months ago

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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
You shouldn't. You deserve someone better. You shouldn't have to worry about him doing the same thing. There are no "accidents. " If he doesn't have that much self control, he shouldn't have been dating you. Move on, find a real guy that won't cheat on you.
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Carebear87 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
No you shouldn't date again. At this age there is no point to put up with cheating. Ok you should never put up with cheating. But if you were married then there is some obligation to maybe have marital counseling and see if you can't fix things. But you are so young. And sex is never an accident. Drunk or not. He intended to do it. And will probably do it again. Wait for a guy who will love you enough to not cheat, and not make dumb excuses for cheating. You'll find a great one out there somewhere. But don't take this guy back.
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friendsrluvers (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
You. You could give him a chance. Remember that no one is perfect. Listen to your heart but don't let love burn you. Sometimes its best to let that person go.
But at least forgive him for cheating on you. You don't have to that guy. But he must be really desperate. People do stupid things when they're incoherent. Is this the only thing that he's done to you? Do you think he really loves you? Do you love him back?
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Question Asker This is the only thing he has done to me and I really love him but I don't know if he loves me back - 7 months ago

 
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