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Confused about the ex girlfriend...Can anyone please help me out?

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smitty5806 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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Ok me and my ex has been separated for about 4 months now and she know I still love her with all my heart and soul. Well I ended contact with her about a month ago and haven't talked to her. Cause I made her admit to having sex with her new loser boyfriend, that still living at home with mommy and dad at the age of 23. Not only that be she told me she was never going to come back to me. We were engaged for 3 months before the break up. Plus she said she was never going to date me again and alone wanted to be my friend. She also said that she was going to move in with him in august and be married by the following year.

Well this pisses me off I start crying rage and being sad. I love this girl with all my heart and got her a engagement ring worth about 1500 bucks. So I tell her I don't want to be her friend and to f*** off. I hope you have a great life with your loser boyfriend and he never better cross my path. Because she's has a had of talking shot about me on Myspace.

So today was her birthday so I call her to wish her happy birthday. She answer the phone and tell me to call back in ten minutes because she is working on her term paper. So I respond ok if I can remember. Well I had no intention on calling back and 30 minutes pass and she calls me back. We talk for and hour and she randomly say I don't know what the future going to hold for us. So I was like whatever, I'm not getting my hopes up again only to cry myself to sleep again.

So I asking all the ladies out there is she really rethinking about coming back to me or not. Cause I would never tell an ex-girlfriend that I know still had deep feelings for my I'm not sure what the future holds for us. Cause that is giving someone false hope. Not to mention I think she knows I'm kind of sort of dating her ex roommate from her freshmen year in her dorm room. But I'm not serious with her or having sex cause I'm not over my ex.

I love this girl with everything I got and would do anything she asks me to. Can anyone give me advice. You can get more info on what been going on from my previous question. I hope there is someone out the that can help me out.

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iLovesShoes (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Meh... Ok how should I say this... I don't agree with the other person? Lol
I say that she's still not over you... Come on How long is she dating that new guy? Girls usually do stuff like moving in and getting married fast if they want to forget about something/someone
You know what girls love? Those crazy romantic movie moments
watch like 10 romantic movies something that has like a part when the guy tries to get the girl back
do the same thing, do something crazy, let her know that you love her... don't do it when her boyfriend is there! Say anything you want. Cry if you want to.

Then if she still says she doesn't want to get back. Say that you will always love her and you'll take her back anytime :S yeah yep ok :P
and if it doesn't work move on because if she doesn't feel the same way as you do, she's not the one for you.
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BJLIBRA ILoveShoes you are so cute and you might be right, I am just proud. Don't feel bad for not agreeing with me. I wish I was crazy like that, but I don't like to get hurt more than necessary. Best wishes. - 4 months ago
Question Asker She called me crying last night about her new Boyfriend calling her immature. Should I take the opportunity to go after or wait to see if he screws up again? - 3 months ago
Answerer Ok when ever a girl has guy problems they need someone to take their side to comfort them
u should just like say how dare he call you tat and stuff don't say reallyyy bad stuff about him because she might get mad then if he screws up you go after her - 3 months ago
Question Asker Ok she f***ing called me crying again. But I check her facebook and she has new pics of them together smiling. But this morning she sent me a comment saying happy cinco de mayo. So I wondering what's going though her head right now. Plus she was like My mom love you and dad honestly liked you. So is that a sign or is she just crazy and confused. - 3 months ago
Answerer I think she's confused. Give her some time she needs to think everything over. She can't have you as a backup. Be sure that she knows that you're not just a backup.
but if anything happens be there for her - 3 months ago

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BJLIBRA (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
You don't explain the reason for the break up, but whatever the reason just remember that you are not second best or need left overs from her. I would not talk to her anymore and I sure would not go back with her after she moved on and she knows you are there whenever she wants. You seem to be a good guy and well rounded, give another girl the chance to win your heart and get to know you. Trust and love once broken are very hard to put back together in one piece. Good luck.
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