Simply put, been going out with my now ex-gf for about two years. We were good but there were little problems that we faced here and there. Then one day it was over. She felt like we fought too much and I think a lot of it also has to deal with her living life and experiencing parties every weekend and such. Something that I'm totally done with. Then something happened a week after, and now she doesn't want to see or talk to me. It's been almost a week from the day she told me she doesn't want to see or talk to me.
Thing is, I still love her. A lot, I should add. I've been seeking the advice of my friends and all of them pretty much give me the whole "give her time. Give her space"
While I do understand that things won't resolve over night, how much time is reasonable to give her before trying to contact her again? It's also a toss up for me whether to contact her later or just wait and have her contact me.
I'm asking this because for me, I get over things rather quickly. A couple days tops is good enough. But I want some outside opinions.
If you couldn't tell already, I still want to be with this girl. And for me, it just feels like if I give it time and space, she'll just slip more away from me. What are your feelings on "space"? To me it seems more like getting over, which is what I can't do. So I always have this urge to call her and try to work things out. I'm not going to be constantly saying "I want you back. II love you" I just want us to be at that point where we're cool with each other. And not this situation where there's no contact.
I know many will say move on. But I won't. Not yet, at least. I want to be with her.
Any advice on what is my best approach to this? I'm gonna approach is first as getting the friendship back, at least. But ultimately, a relationship is what I want.
Unfortunately it takes 2 for friendship and love and she is not interested. I know it hurts, but she told you that she does not want to talk to you and I am not sure there is anything you can do other than wait until pleases her to call you, which may or may not happen. She might be interested in somebody else right now and does not want you to interfere. Move on and good luck.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
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