After 2 years in a relationship with the most wonderful woman I'll ever know, a trust issue has caused everything to instantly come to an end. She won't answer her phone nor is she ever home when I come by. I don't want to resort to stalking type things so I figure I just need to give her plenty of space. I want to apologize so badly and not offer any excuses just admit I was wrong but I can't even get that far.
Anyway the other day I saw her driving her car and the very large decall I once gave her (declaring her passion for Surfing) was still openly displayed on the car. If she was 100% angry with me wouldn't she make an attempt to scrap off that decall since it would remind her of the one who gave it to her??
More to the point ....wouldn't she make an effort to return the many things I'd given her over the last 2 years ?? Not that I want them but surely she doesn't want reminders of me laying around. What am I missing regarding a woman's mindset?
Some girls just rather be left alone.. Hey you messed up. But is she an Angel herself? For her to be just not answering your calls at all somethings up. If you really love her, you'll keep trying to get her attention though. Her not giving back everything and taking that decal sticker off her car doesn't necessarily mean she's still thinking of you. Some girls just have an out of sight out of mind kinda thing going on. If she wants you back she'll call you. Try something different, don't stalk her at all. Maybe just maybe, she'll come to you.
If you really want to apologize can't you just write her a letter and tell her how you feel? Maybe even send it in a bunch of flowers that SOMEBODY ELSE delivers? If you were untrustworthy with her then just consider telling her that you will work on being trustworthy and that you are sorry and ask her how you can prove yourself to her,etc. Most times girls and women will consider a gift a gift and keep them unless it is an engagement ring. Maybe she just likes the decal and wants to keep it. Scraping it off would be work and take time and she probably rather go get a manicure or most anything else.
It could go both ways. Sometimes girls want to throw everything you've ever given them in your face, after they set it on fire and stomped on the ashes. Other times they want to keep it all since they figure they deserve at least the presents they rec'd while being with you.
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
asked Yesterday
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