What helped you most in getting over a break-up?

Out of all the things I did, talking to other girls and making them laugh cheered me up the most. That, and getting out of the house helped enormously. Break-ups are tough, especially if you cared very much for the one that left.

I actually wrote songs.

I still haven't not completely, but I also realize that it was part of who I was then, and I have changed since so it can never be that way again. Also I found somebody new, that helps immensely, but be careful with timing, you want someone to keep, not a re-bound guy.

I got rid of everything that reminded me of her. Anything lying around that was hers, pictures, letters and cards, phone number, email address, deleted from my facebook. Everything went. Because I had no reminders, she eventually faded into memory.

the best thing I did was stop talking to him stopped taking his phone calls responding to his messages just cut him out of my life till I was ready sometimes the smartest and the HARDEST thing to do is to let go

I am in the process of getting over a relationship right now. I journal a lot to express my thoughts and feelings. I try not to think a lot about him because it was a horrible relationship. Whenever I think about him, I get busy doing something to redirect my thoughts. Also, if I feel myself feeling sad or hurt all over again, I pray or read the Bible for comfort and strength. I've continued with my life such as staying faithful to my church ministry, spending time with family and friends, and just doing other things that I really enjoy! The most important thing I do is pray and keep my relationship with Jesus Christ. Prayer heals and helps me to forgive. We are never over anyone until we have truly forgiven that person!