My ex boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years together in 2002 . he wanted to spend time with his friends all the time. we were in contact on and off and he told me that we would get back together one day so I waited and waited for him because I love him.
In may 2005 I started dating someone else because I thought my ex was never coming back after all it had been 3 years then out of the blue in September 2005 I got a birthday card and my ex suddenly wanted me back he didn't know about my current boyfriend at the time of wanting me back. I was pregnant and I told him I was in a relationship
He still wanted me back and he wanted me and the baby I was so happy this is what I always wanted. but as nice as it sounded I was unable to leave because I was in a difficult situation. and then in june 2006 he said he didn't want anything to do with me. I cried and cried and ended up staying with my current partner. I love him but wasn't in love with him not like my ex. All I kept thinking was if only he had come back for me sooner or if only I had waited a bit longer for him.
since June 2006 not a word from him until April this year 2008 I had an email from him. he was asking how I was and he would like us to be friends again after all we had been through those were his words. I'm still my relationship but we have continued to grow apart. I told my ex this and I have told him that I am thinking of moving out
He said in an email that I shouldn't fall out with my boyfriend and that I should sort it out so that my baby can grow up in a happy home. Im slightly confused about this. This is from the same guy who wanted me to leave my current boyfriend he practically begged me. and now he is wanting me to work things out.
Its hard to believe that we were together. I was getting my hopes up thinking that he wanted me still. because he got back in contact and now he is wanting me to sort things out should he be thinking that its a good thing that I am breaking up with my boyfriend
my heads all over the place please give me some advice I don't want to give up
He loved you to the point where he can let you go and be happy as long as he see you smile. He doesn't want to feel like he broke up your relationship. He's in love with someone else or dating. He got over you after he found out you had a baby with your partner. (3years its a long time, just like you gave up after your waiting 3 years)