I'm only interested in answers from people who have been the cheater. Why did you do it? If you were in a good relationship and cared for your partner, then why?
I ask because I've been the cheater and I can't find an answer to why I did it. It's plaguing and torturing me. I had a boyfriend I cared deeply about. Our relationship was a bit rocky, but we had worked things out before. We had a fight. I was feeling depressed, vulnerable, and angry. It happened so fast, but the guilt caught up to me. By then it was too late. The damage was done.
I miss my boyfriend terribly. He wants answers, but I can't find them. All I can do is hate myself. He's willing to talk to me, but he views me like I'm some whore. And so he should.
I cheated before. It was an opportunity to have sex with a beautiful woman without getting caught. I took it and have never regretted it. It had nothing to do with my then girlfriend and we are still together.
I cheated because well the girl who I cheated with was super hot, and I wasn't planning on cheating, but my girlfriend at the time left to go to sleep and it was just this hot girl and me alone drinking, and she started kissing me, and to this day nope I don't regret it and myex doesn't know about it
Well lets see, I cheated because I knew that I could get away with it at the time. I liked the guy, well more like lust the guy, and things just happened. I don't approve for it though. When my ex found out he was very hurt and so was I. The guilt does overwhelm but the good news is that it goes away. Every day does get easier. I was deeply in love with him too, and then afterwards he forgave me. People make mistakes. Be honest with your ex/bf and let him that you are truly sorry. All he can do is accept or reject. But trust me, I learned my lesson cause one thing that I am not is a whore. Just take it slow next time and never repeat because then all it does is make you look like you never learned. Good Luck! Candass
Well I cheated once on a boyfriend once and after cheating I felt horrible but when it came down to it I realized that there was a need not being meet that had nothing to do with sex. The guy never did meet that need and we later broke up, but now I have a boyfriend that does meet all my needs and I understand what was missing now. You may need to dig deep to find what it is that may not being filled, but most of all take some time and find an honest answer then go talk to your boyfriend. - 5 months ago
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