My ex dumped me about 4 months ago and doesn't even entertain the idea of getting back together. But yet he still keeps in touch with me VIA email and chat. I'm not sure how to handle the situation because I do still love him but I know he doesn't want to come back into my life as a boyfriend. I've thought about emailing him and telling him to stop, but I also hope that by him being in contact with me he might eventually change his mind and come back as. What do I do? :(
Tell him that you need your space in order for you to get over him and move on, if you don't want to move on then you're someone in a lose lose situation, unless you can bear it and just get through it. But I would have to say to just tell him and cut contact with him for yourself.
Either cut contact, or grin and bear it. I will be the first to admit that it's very very hard to see an ex, or even just to speak to them after a break-up if you still have strong feelings for them. I tend to break things off, there are 6 billion people in the world, I'm sure you can find someone else.
Thanks guys. Do you have any idea of why he's still contacting me? That's what I can't figure out? He's the one that wanted out, yet he's still talking to me - 7 months ago
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