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Why is he not upset?

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XoconfusedoX (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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Just broke up with my ex boyfriend a few days ago and I don't even think he's upset about it. I am happier that I don't have to deal with him not calling me, but how can someone who claims that they want to marry u, will never stop loving you and have your babies, not seem upset?

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ramkid (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Are you seriously asking this question? First of all guys hide their feelings because we think that if we act like you didn't matter it will make you feel like you didn't matter and will magically be compelled to come back to us. I don't know y but it actually works for some guys who's exes come back to them. Why he is acting this way though is probably also because he seriously loved you and meant everything he said and you just tossed him out!
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Answerer Also, the fact that it matters to you that he is acting this way, shows that whether you realize it or not you have feelings for this guy still - 4 months ago
Question Asker anyways. I just talked to him on the phone like 2 days ago and all he was doing was saying that he wasn't really upset and just sounding like a sarcastic jerk and trying to blame everything on me(when he knew he had faults) - 4 months ago
Answerer Okay, now keep in mind this guy may actually be an asshole, but really the most common thing for a guy to do when they are hurting is to resort to sarcasm and to blame others...hard to tell which category he is in but he fits both, just continue to try and feel him out - 4 months ago
Question Asker We don't even talk anymore(big surprise) but w/e I'm sure he's perfectly fine, and probably hates my guts. - 3 months ago
Answerer Okay turns out he's an asshole. big whoop, you broke up with him and now you don't have to care about this crap. Just try and find a nice guy who's life wouldn't be the same without you, like you and every girl out there deserves. Good luck - 3 months ago
 

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girl-interrupted1988
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girl-interrupted1988 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
He's upset, he's just not going to let you know he's upset.
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MissAnnThropic (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Either he really didn't love you (which I doubt) or he is upset and he's hiding it. Boys do that a lot.
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RoCkStAR1985 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Honey maybe he's just like the 98% of the rest of them... they do feel upset but they somehow block their feelings and never show 'em to us...they're pretty stupid, but that's their game...
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Question Asker Yea seriously..w/e he was a loser anyways - 3 months ago

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maureen (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
How do you know he is not upset?
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Question Asker B/c he had a very "I dont give a shit" tone in his voice and he hasn't bothered to try to contact me and talk about it. - 4 months ago
 
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