Boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. However I was recently in a divorce. I noticed with boyfriend's recent moving around, he's spending more time with other girls without telling me and when I find out I get upset, it seems all he wants from me is sex. I've tried sitting down with him and talking about it but he avoids the subject and seems to take advice from his "brother" who has about 18 girlfriends and is sleeping with all of them.
My boyfriend would rather listened to his friends than try to defend my honor when they speak bad of me. What do I do?
It sounds like you had this boyfriend before your divorce, right? (how could the divorce be recent otherwise)
That means to me that you had an affair with this guy, though you didn't say so.
So, if I'm correct, you're BOTH proven cheaters, he just wants sex, he emulates his cheating "brother," and he doesn't defend you when his friends hurt you. And he's acting like he's cheating on you now.
Guess what the solution is here? Break up. Sheesh. You know this already, right?
Even if YOU'RE not a cheater (but that does make me wonder why you phrased your question the way you did) the rest of the assessment says: Crappy relationship.
And if he DID factor in your divorce, go figure out your own problems before picking another loser like this, and cheating on another husband, and getting cheated on again, and in general learn that you AND your husband both deserve respect and a healthy relationship.
youngbangerz
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Be strong and find someone better because you are going to keep hurting yourself being in situation when you are not happy. Healthy relationships should be open all the time to any subject. He doesn't wanna talk because he is guilty and is pretty stupid if he takes other's advice who are doing no better then what he is doing. Basically he is an ass and doesn't even know it.
A recent divorce and a bad boyfriend that only cares about sex?? Make sure what you REALLY want from a guy first and don't give in too quickly. Mistakes are what makes us who we are and teach us what we know today, but they could be costly too. As for the current boyfriend, get rid of him.
If he cheats on you, then he's not good enough. I mean, maybe once and you could forgive him, but according to you this has been numerous times. Sweetie, save your heart and look for a boy who will treat you right and love you for you, not for sex.
Also for the next relationship, don't get into a situation where your partner is expecting sex. Do it when you are married! =]
Find a man that will value you and be honest with you and faithful to you and you be the same with him. A man that cares for you will care enough to see only you. Good luck.
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