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I just got dumped...what now?

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Rachel4love2 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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My boyfriend just broke up with me. He said he doesn't have feelings for me anymore and how our relationship has no spark and everything. He's bored of me, and I can't change that. He wanted to be more intimate, but I am not ready to have sex with him.

Now when I ask if he is happy now, he doesn't know. I don't know what to do right now. I don't know how to get him back. Maybe I shouldn't even try.
HELP PLEASE

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Avalace (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
You should move on. You can't make someone feel something for you if he no longer does.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Well if he says that to you then heck I'd stop talking to him for a while, but I wouldn't bother to even think about trying to be with him again, he's a jerk. Don't let this get you wrapped up in something you don't deserve. Go for someone that's better than this guy.
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kitsch (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Sorry to tell you, but you CANNOT make someone feel something that IS NOT THERE.
And if he ends up coming back to you because you tried getting him back, he's only going to come back to you because he's lonely and not really because he wants to be with you...he just wants to be with "someone" and that "Someone" is sitting around waiting for him = YOU.

you'll just set yourself up for disappointment.
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Talia (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Hey to be honest he did good but not in that way. The only reason he wanted you was to have sex he saw that he couldn't get it so he gave up and left you but if he really likes you he'll come back and he'll respect your decision or until your ready but hey I wish you the best luck ok.
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Question Asker This is the second time its happened. Last time the breakup lasted for 5 days. But I don't see him coming back and to be honest,i don't wanna put up with him. Thankx for the comment - 3 months ago

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Lisa08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
When I was 16 I dated a guy for a year. And he pretty much dumped me for the same reasons (except we were having sex. And he said it a little nicer! ). It took a long time to get over it, but looking back now (that was 5 years ago), I can't believe I thought we would be together forever. The truth is guys that age get bored easily. No 17 or 18 year old kid wants a wife. And whatever you do, do NOT have sex with him to get him back. That is not the answer- he'll only end up hurting you more if you give that up to him. As hard as it is, keep yourself busy and try to meet new people and move on. Go out with your girl friends and stuff like that.
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Question Asker Thank you so much :) - 3 months ago

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R6LA1 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Girl, he sounds like a loser! Maybe you can't see it now, but if he isn't respectful of your boundaries and what not, he's not worthy of your time. How offensive that he would tell you he's bored of you! What a lame excuse. Just move on and be greatful he's behind you!

*good luck! *
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Question Asker Thankx a lot. I won't see him after july anyways, I'm moving away and going to university - 3 months ago
 
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