Well the ex was crazy and mean and controlling and I don't want to take out the anger and pain that I have towards him on another guy because I think that would be wrong I mean what can I do because I just can't help that I am hurt and all these emotions that I have
Find a sport or exercise your anger out of your system. Also don't find I guy that will remind you of him, it will only make you want to hurt him thinking it's your ex. Find a guy that is nice and charming and you won't want to hurt him in anyway cause he will not remind any of your ex. Learn from your past and move forward with a better relationship. Find that hobby to calm your nerves and it will help get control of your emotions. If anything take it out on your new guy sexually, he want complain. Angry sex is good sex, lol!
I think you just need to get over the anger and pain towards your ex before moving on to the next one, you won't be 100% fixed per say when you meet another guy, but please don't take it out on the next guy. Also, set your standards differently because you might end up attracting the same "controlling/crazy/mean" guy.
All guys aren't like your ex...find a nice dude and don't treat him like if he were your ex.
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