Am the type of person that when I like or love a guy I show it in many ways,and am in love with my ex but not cause I want to. You know how love is it doesn't tell you, fall in love with that guy instead it it makes your heart make the choice cause no one demands in the heart. And like me and him are getting closer together everyday we don't kiss cause were not boyfriend and girlfriend but were always together and were always playing together and everyone thinks were going out but were really not :-( and we talked on the phone and he told me that he's alright talking to me as long as I don't start with my BULLSHIT in other words telling him how I feel for him but then he said I've changed a lot. Well I have cause last time we had an argument because of this same situation and I changed I don't steal kisses anymore I tryed as much as possible to ignore him,and I have he has tempted me to kiss him and I hold myself back even if I want the kiss. But the thing is that I don't know why he doesn't like me telling him how I feel for him. Answer my question plz.
I get the feeling that he feels like when you tell him how you feel, it puts pressure on him to explain how he feels and he probably isn't ready to do that yet. I don't know why. And you probably still make him feel special in some way, that's why he still flirts with you. He sounds like he is confused and he would like for things to go with the flow of things for now without a lot of pressure.
Could it possibly be that he is your ex? That would mean the relationship failed somewhere, and by you bring up how much you feel for him doesn't help him move on.
But I stopped expressing them cause it hurt me so much he called my feelings bullshit and now he's bringing up how I feel for him with out me saying anything and I just tell him shit up am not gonna talk about that cause remember you said its bullshit. And now he does wanna talk about feelings. Who understands guys? For sure not me - 5 months ago
If he's asking you now about how you feel, and you still have feelings for him, it may be the time to finally open up and tell him a few things - but only a few. I would only give him enough to chew on for a little while. However, I would not initiate being the one to tell him how you feel about anything anymore either. I agree with Nash - I think he likes to take things in his own timing and may be just scared of getting too close too quickly or committing too quickly. - 5 months ago
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No I don't think its the time that matters cause its been 4months since we broke up so he's just holding his self back or he probably wants to have some fun before he gets into a serious relationship. - 5 months ago
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