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Should I take him back?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me because of stupid fights off and on for about 1 year and 4 months. He says the same excuses for breaking up because we fight too much. He hasn't came back yet but I have this great feeling he will. When he does I don't know if I should take him back or not. What is your input? If I do take him back how can I teach him a lesson to not hurt me anymore by breaking up? But if I do teach him the lesson by not getting back with him and then later get back with him once he learns will it even work with guys?

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R6LA1 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Who wants to get stuck in that on-again-off-again cycle? why waste time with someone who is only going to break up/come back/break up/ come back over and OVER?! do NOT take him back! I think that'll be the best for your own sanity!

*good luck!*
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always-believe (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
You know when I break up with my very first lover, I also have a great feeling that he will come back to me and hoping that our new relationship will be refreshing and much happier and fun than before, but it was just a hope that ambiguous. Now it's been 3 years, and he never there and come back to me. My relationship situation also has some similarity difficulty as yours, since the early our relationship, we often fight and until this great fight that make him gave up. We both make a mistake, but I am the major mistake in this break up, yes, I am emotional,sensitive, jealous and all the girl's emotion weaknesses. Do you?Guys always get bored with this.But guys too have their irritate and annoying behavior. We have to admit that, you know.One thing that I am not feel peace inside is I still love him though, I can't lie to my self, I don't know what to do.So,i did one last decision once and for all, after 3 years, I ask him whether I'll lose him forever or not and he answer yes.Then, I just step forward and move on my life. Sometimes, you have to accept the reality that even we feel that they belong to us, but it may be wrong, we don't know. So rather you keep believing he will come back to you, you just have to reconsider it again. You make decision.
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nique23 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
UGGHH , I don't pretty much care for people that do this , its called PLAYING GAMES and all because he knows he can. I've been there too and trust me people only do what we allow . . so don't allow him to do that anymore. It seems to me that you really care for this guy otherwise you wouldn't be putting yourself in this type of situation, but you have to stop letting this be his habit. If he wants you back make him work damn hard for it. Then again , really do you want this guy back ?? What's the point ?? He doesn't deserve you .. .and don't let him tell you different . .if he knew he deserved you he wouldn't be giving you the run around .
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
'Pickup lines'? I would NOT use a pickup line unless I'm joking around. I've used the one 'I lost my number... Can I have yours' but I couldn't say it with a straight face! Why not just start talking to the dude? Without being annoying and without making him think your stalking him!

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