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How can I ever trust him again? even as a friend...

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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Found out my Ex was cheating on me behind my back.We were still friends ,but now that I found this out I dunno about it anymore I mean how can I trust someone like him even as a friend?

i mostly feel like going and beating the crap out of him for wasting a year and a half of my life with him!

any advice anyone?

Update: To let you all know who say to forget him I really don't see how I can,He was my best friend before we dated.I've known him for half my life.how can I just forget someone who's around me every day? Also I've already started dating again , good or bad idea?    4 months ago

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Go beat the hell out of him,and never talk to him again.

Never Speak to him again.

Give him a 2nd chance as a friend.

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dohcrwd
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dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
You'll need a night stick to beat him up.
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angel-of-death
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angel-of-death (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Trust is a lie.... Never Get married when your 17! it just ruins your life
Your lucky you don't have a ring on your finger and a baby on the way
you can just go on with your life and find someone else
sooo do what you want cause the past can't be changed soo just get on with the future
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DeltaBoy1983
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DeltaBoy1983 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Just move on with your life and leave him behind. Call this a life lesson and learn from it. There is no need to say he wasted a year and a half of your life, cause you are under 18, and have a long life to go. I feel none of my exes wasted my time, they just were a part of life and a part of me growing up to be a better man. This will only make you a better woman.

I don't know if you listen to Corey Smith the singer, but he says, "To live is to struggle, and to struggle is to grow...and I got a long long way to go."
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R6LA1
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R6LA1 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Why do you have to be friends with him? If he's a jerk and you don't respect him, why is it so important that you keep in touch? cut him OUT and be done with it!

*good luck!*
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gReekpRincess
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gReekpRincess (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
If you guys where dating, and he cheated on u, then why would you wanna be friends with him anyways..?? You can't ever regain ur trust in someone who does you wrong like that.. Its to hard, and in the back of ur mind, you'll be left wondering if he's talking b.s to you just to cover his ass..

Now, since ur feeling as if you wanna beat him down (which I don't blame you at all for..) then its not right for you to keep seeing him, even if it is only as friends, forgive him for what he did, it will help you be so much stronger, and you will know ur the bigger person in the end, and you will still feel like kicking his stupid face in, but in time you'll get over it.. yeah you guys where together for a year or whatever, but I bet you totally grew from the experience.. so what I'm actually trying to say is, forget him and his scandalous ways, move on and be happy..!!
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