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Should I make her jealous if I really care about her and love her?

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mcdowtm (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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ladies please help should I make my ex jealous to win her back. I told her the other night that I was out with some friends and she went crazy like where you at who are you with then the next day she asked me if I did anything with any girls I said no why she said so I will know not to do anything with you anymore but were not together please help me on this situation thanks.

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*StillWater*
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*StillWater* (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Well, if you really like her I would suggest that you just simply tell her how you feel! And that you want to get back together (if you do). If not then move on with your life.
Making her jealous is not going to accomplish anything except making her angry or hurt and neither of those options will work in your favor. Trust me!



*StillWater*
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R6LA1
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R6LA1 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
wow - sounds like your ex is kind of crazy. Why do you want to get back with her? she's being all overbearing and jealous and you're not even together. meanwhile you're trying to MAKE her jealous to try and get her back. Sounds like a lot of games to me, and why do you want to be tangled up in all that?

*good luck!*
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when-the-rain-fall
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when-the-rain-fall (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I agree with S8tr1234. She seems like she still likes ya. Don't put her in that position if you still care for her.
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S8tr1234
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S8tr1234 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
i wouldn't do that. the fact that she's asking the who, where and what questions means that she still has feelings for you. if she didn't she wouldn't be bothered and wouldn't be interrogating you with these questions. if you still have feelings for her just be direct and talk to her about it. if she's going to be immature about the situation and you feel like she's just playing games with you then move on. it's not worth the time or heartache to wait for someone and watch them slowly eat your soul away. there will be plenty of opportunities for you to meet a nice girl. just put yourself out there and don't give up so easily on yourself. maybe this girl just isn't ready or isn't right for you.
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Rocking
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Rocking (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
No. She'll think you don't care about her anymore and she'll move on if you play with her mind. Why play games? Isn't that the reason people don't get together. I give advices to all the girls to stay away from players like you :)
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ambishis I don't think he was meaning 2 be a "player" he was simply asking if you thought it was right 4 him 2 do that, thats ok, but don't try 2 judge him on something he didnt say lol - 4 months ago
Answerer Well excuse me, isn't that why most girls here put the problems like "why is he being such a jerk by asking other girls out and playing games? :) maybe you don't have this issue with guy, then good! but you have to take a look from how it will be from another angle. if you love someone and play games it's gonna get back at ya. what goes around comes back around babe =p - 4 months ago
Answerer Sorry didn't notice you're a guy, reverse - 4 months ago
 

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Rafael151
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Rafael151 (Age:Over 45)      When: 4 months ago
I know you are asking the ladies, but do you really want that kind of jealousy going on? I mean, she is already very jealous and suspicious, which is why she went crazy. And you want to add more fuel on that fire? Were you already apart before this happened? If so, then she 's not in a position to say anything - unless it was one of those temporary things where you agreed not to see other people. I'll be surprised if any ladies say that creating jealousy is going to help in this situation.
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guy777 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
don't make her jealous because then she will think your a jerk. and I did once make my ex jealous and I did get her back but not for long but ya don't do it
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Shyyz (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I am kind of confused by your description, but from what I can gather, your ex asked you if you had any relations with anyone else and said that she will not do anything anymore with you. Well it seems like your ex still is kind of jealous that you have friends and is conscious about the fact that you could have another girlfriend. I would never recommend making anyone jealous to play with there mind for whatever reason, but it seems that her jealousy for you already exists in her head. If you really care for her and love her, you will talk to her about why you two quit in the first place, exchange apologies, and commit to things that you can both agree on that will help you in the future.

Relationships take sacrifices and work, so good luck.

-Shyzz
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