Here's the situation.and from the Title people can presume he is trying to let me down "easy" or there is someone else or something like that, but this isn't that kind of situation.I just don't think that statement fit with the situation my ex( so hard to add that in front) boyfriend and I are in.
It started off with me.i disrupted us.but for a decent reason. Lets call my ex Sam.Sam is very insecure and he needs reassuring a good deal of the time. And you know how you roll a snowball and it gets bigger and bigger over time.well the insecurities he portrayed to me got more and more annoying.and finally one day he called me fake.that I was acting fake towards him when we hung out that day and that I didn't truly want to hang with him. I got sick of it.we argued on the phone and I hung up. Later that day he texted me bout the whole situation.and the texts are the worst when talking bout this kind of subject. At that point I wanted a break because I was just so frustrated with him he took it hard but all was okay.until I started being a huge bitch to him.for instance he texted me to ask how I was one day and I texted him back "thought we are on a break and shouldnt talk as much' and I take that back.i was in a bad mood. ever since then he had been very upset and annoyed and I didn't care. something came over me in that week where I was just like.FU*K THIS.i made a big mistake. Karma came for a visit.and now he is on the other side expect he said he wants to be friends now and he used the cliche I LOVE YOU BUT AM NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU. btw we had been dating almost 2 years.its not another woman though.its like he got hurt.and then saw how bitchy I was and he said he doesn't need that in his life right now.(this convo was online by the way he's never said the line to my face) so I asked another clice question.could you ever be in love with me and he said he could def see that but he needs time away.and then he said.so do i.im so confused I do love him and never lost the feelings.yet he did and it just hurts a lot.can I expect him to come back to me.how do I go about this situation.i know to give him space, but then I don't want him to think I don't care.i also work with him so that could work in my favor as well.i know deep deep inside he loves me and is in love and he seems to be very screwy in the head right now. someone help me figure this out.
i was in love with my ex and I ended it because I wasnt in love with him anymore I just loved him as a friend we are still good friends so I don't think its a cliche at all to be honest
What that statement means is I love you but I don't want the responsibility of the relationship anymore but I hope I can still f*** you every now and then. Men are pro's at pacifying a woman. Always trying to keep one foot in the door just in case he get bored, has nothing better to do or the next bitch he f***s isn't all that!
I truly feel bad for every woman who has to hear those words. Those words actually get my blood pressure up.bull shit.
Why can't guys just say I am still in love with you but my dick is like a compass always pointing in different directions and I want to go screw some new pussy because I am bored with yours.
There really is so much more to that statement however, I don't think I have the patience right now to go through a big explanation.
I am sorry this is happening to you but if I may suggest .move on and thank him for giving you the opportunity to enjoy your summer as a free single gal.who nows has a new adventure/journey to pursue.
My wish for you is that next summer your dating this fabulous guy who love you .and you think if that Asshole didn't break up with me I would have never had the chance to meet this wonderful guy.
Yea your completely wrong I love my ex but I'm not in love with her I just love and care about her it has nothing to do with getting to f*** her so maybe sometimes it means that but not me and I'm sure other guys see it that way 2 - 2 months ago
I another x of mine said it about her ex when we were together too so like I said maybe in ur situation but definitely not all - 2 months ago
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Yes, I do understand that people fall out love and it doesn't mean that they don't care about the person. I understand that everyone tries to keep one foot in the door, just in case or because they are confused. Sorry if I offend anyone but this bs happens all the time. We all need to accept that getting our hearts broken is part of the process of life. - 2 months ago
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