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Do you make friends with your Ex?

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Toshytosee (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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Well my best friend broke up with his girlfriend during Prom Night and his Ex started to talk to me saying that she is mad at him and she won't talk to him. I asked her why and she said she never makes friends with their ex. I know they would make good friends but I don't know why she doesn't want to be friends.

Do you make friends with your ex?

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Yes , just because I broke up with him/her doesn't mean we can't be friends

No, It will seem awkward
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
unless.she/he cheated on you.lol.or somethin like that.
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hottielips13
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hottielips13 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
There's always both sides to the story.
sometimes it just creates more drama than needed.
I personally wouldn't be friends with him, especially if things ended bad.
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Jenna1996
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Jenna1996 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
My answer is no! If someone gets dumped why would they have any interest in being friends with that person? So that a few months after they dump you, they tell you "I met someone today and I am going out on a date tonight." And then you will be very devastated. Then their date would turn into another date and before you know it they are in a new relationship. Then a few weeks after that, they decide to end the friendship with you too because you are getting in the way of their new relationship. It happened to me actually.
My advice, is just let go completely.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Absolutely not, it's an awkward situation, I mean it was a relationship that didn't work out, why would you try something else, it's pointless
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shanny-2006
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shanny-2006 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Unfortunately no. It's something that is hard for me to do, so to avoid this situation I just forget about them. However, if I see them on the street, I would say hi to them for the sake of being polite.
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taylor-dane
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taylor-dane (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Yess , because they can be great friends and don't lie or talk behind your back , I'm awesome friends with my ex and we great now.
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crystaliiscute
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crystaliiscute (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
No, I try not to make friends with my ex boyfriends because it causes to many problems for you not only physically but emotionally. When you are friends with your exes it's hard because there are so many memories between you two that it might be hard to just be " Friends " And when you try and get with another girl/boy and you're friends with your ex he/she might get jealous over the girl/boy you are trying to get with or the other way around. So really it's much better to just try your best and forget about your ex boyfriend/girlfriend because in the end it is wayy to much Drama for you and the next girlfriend/boyfriend.


I hope this helped you out
good luckk. : )
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S8tr1234 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
i don't like to as I'm usually the one who gets dumped. it makes me feel like they're just using me or want someone there if their friends aren't there. I don't like the idea of making myself too readily available as I had been while I was in a relationship. I mean if I wasn't their friend to begin with and just a girlfriend, then why on earth would I want to be friends with someone who hurt me. sorry, but I think that the whole being friends with your ex is messed up. someone's always going to get hurt.
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irish-girl-08
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irish-girl-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
im best friends with an ex which is kind of weird to some people but were great friends and I'm glad we are I don't see why I should had to say goodbye to the only person I can trust and talk to and same as he does so we stayed friends which worked out great for us it just depends all on the person really
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dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
the ideal answer is yes, yet, it all depend on your break up, some will be great friend, since she know you quite well. but there will be few that will never be friend no matter what.

gotta face it. "people come, people go."
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