Ok so here we go! I have been with my boyfriend a little bit over one year. About that dreaded one year mark I started to feel different about him. I am now miserable, I tried to break up with him, and well he um won't leave! We have an apartment together, and yes both of our names are on the lease. Our lease is not up until November of '08. I however and financially stable to take over all the bills by myself, he is not. I have a feeling he is trying to make me leave the apartment, but ill be damned if my credit score (which is good), get ruined because he can't afford it! HELP!I don't know how to make him go away! He is an all around good guy, I'm not just in love wit him anymore and I need my life back. I am a determined, successful woman, and goal oriented I don't need someone who isn't around anymore and he is making this more difficult then it needs to be. Any and all advice is welcomed!
Just try to stick it out if you can. pay for the bills if you have to. this guy is trying to get under your skin and he's using the fact that your lease won't be up until Nov '08 as a way to keep you close to him. he's probably thinking that you're not serious. if it was me, I'd probably start bringing dates home so he gets the picture that you aren't together anymore and that you've moved on. I know it seems childish but this guy needs to be shocked in some way. whatever pet peeves he has, use it against him. hopefully he'll get so annoyed that he'll want to move out. if nothing happens, get some legal advice. when there's a will there's a way. you just need to find the right pesticide to get rid of this pest.
Thanks yeah its an act that is becoming tiring and old - he just got laid off from his job too and won't collect unemployment - i told him he has until the end of the week to get out - I've had it I'm done - grr men are grrr - 2 months ago
Maybe you should start ignoring him and being cold, and bring another guy over when he's home. I know it sounds mean, but that might make him move out and move on.
Talk to whoever manages your office and see if there is a way to get out of the lease. I would think there has to be a way to do this since plenty of people split up after moving in together. Since he is staying behind in the apartment they may not even require any penalty or anything for you leaving the lease early. But even if they do make you pay the penalty to get out of the lease, wouldn't it be worth it if it got you OUT?!
Thanks Ill have to check with the office - the only issue with getting out of my lease early is this: my boyfriend is friends with the office managers son! - 3 months ago
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