Me and my ex split up at the beginning of April as he said he needed time on his own! There was a lot of tension between us but we still met up a couple of times and spoke on the phone.
I attended his nan's funeral at the end of April and we had a big argument and decided it would be best not to be friends anymore. I was really upset but felt I just had to stay strong & move on. Due to financial reasons I had to get in contact with him and ask him to pay off the credit cards with me as I couldn't do it on my own.
Since then he has contacted me EVERY day at least twice a day and we have met up on 5 days in one week. On all these occasions he has been very cuddly and touchy feely. We were on the phone for 3 hours one night and he was saying how he wants me to have one of his kids regardless whether he is with someone or not and same for me.
It was my 21st birthday and he took me out, bought me some presents and took me out for dinner and then we went to the cinema, it was just like the old times :(
I just do not know what to think because to me this is not a normal thing to do with your ex, regardless whether you still have feelings for them or not its just very weird.
I just need to know other peoples opinions or whether you think he is missing me and maybe is considering asking me to take him back or whether he is playing mind games (even though he is not gaining anything from it!).?
I don't see any clear signs that this is a game. This could be a guy who wants to fix things and doesn't have the word "sorry" in his vocabulary. But I second the advice from Mariejc about being careful.
i kina know how this one go. I just think that if between you guys are really over.sometimes its hard to move on and you missed the other half so you tend to go back.but if there's a possibility for you guys to get back then I would suggest to see the hints and either one of you take the first step and ask if you guys still want to get back together or not. if the bond between you too were very tight in the past then why not give it another try.if not. then its just best to move on and try to spend less time with each other and find someone else or do something else.
if your not giving him what he wants. like you said even though he is not gaining anything from it. he might just miss spending time with you, and him asking you to take one of his kids, he might be testing you there to see how much you still care about him. it might be a good thing, to show how much you still care but than again he might be testing you. be careful and goodluck =]
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