So basically I'll just summarize what happened between my ex girlfriend and me. We were together for about a year and 6 months when she broke up with me. However, we were already fighting for like 2 months straight. The fights would be over stupid stuff but we just fought every single day. Eventually she said she couldn't take it anymore and I didn't blame her for it. We still "talked" and pretty much acted like we were going out, even went to prom together, but just without the title of boyfriend/girlfriend.
It was our Jr. Prom and she had been asked to go to Sr. Prom with this other kid. She said yes, though I previously told her I wouldn't think it would be such a good idea. She went to prom weekend with her friends and this and that. When she came back I knew she was different. I knew something was going on with a kid, who called himself my friend. I confronted her about it and she denied anything was going on several times. Later thought she did admit that she had a crush on him. Ever since that, which was like 1 month ago she has been hanging out with him and her new friends. It seems like she left all her friends behind just to be with the upper class men.
I went over one day I guess for closure and she just started crying her eyes out, telling me how she still loves me and she still hasn't move on. However she was like I can't be with you right now. I asked her about the kid and she said she wanted nothing from him and that she wasn't looking for a relationship from anyone. She told me she was trying to figure stuff out. At school I see her laughing and smiling, which is fine don't get me wrong it's not like I want her stuck in a room crying her eyes out. I just don't understand after the year and a half and plus the months before we were friends how she could just move on so quickly with this new kid.
I've made some mistakes by trying to talk to her but I also been looking at the other forums and they basically say to stay away and I have been doing that. At school I don't walk to her classes anymore and I see her a couple of times in the halls but I never look at her. A couple of days ago she tells me that I need to go get help because I got angry at some kid who was talking ***** about how I got no game and the other kid does, basically b.s. She was like "You shouldn't get this way and that I need to talk to someone." I told her I just use everything for motivation, just the type of person I am. Football season is around the corner and there's nothing better than those Friday night lights for me. I told her that I'm glad she cares but I handle things different and I wish her good luck on her cheerleading tryouts, and then walk away.
I'm figuring since there is not much left of school I can ignore her. However I feel like the less contact we have the more we are going to grow apart. But I also don't want to be the nagging bf. I really don't know what should I do? I don't know if my questions are clear but anything would help. Thanks
You are young and have your whole life ahead of you! When I was your age, a teacher told me "This to will pass". Start looking outside of the activities of school. Somewhere that you will meet other gals and guys for that matter. Relationships hurt at all ages when they end, it is part of life and it sucks. But we have all gone through disappointment at one time or another in life. You have a heart and only share it with those who will take care of it. Crying and playing emotional mind games is keeping you tied to her.a true friend would not do that. Be true to yourself first, then you can be true to others! Best of Luck to you!
She's your typical heartless b!#$% it seems, girls like that view relationships in a cost/benefit sort of way. She basically moved on to someone she thought was "better" and that shows immaturity on her part, I say be the mature one and let the relationship die, there's more fish in the sea!
I agree. She wants things both ways. If she's off in this other world then what you say to some kid is no concern of hers. Ignore her. She doesn't want you to be OK, obviously. The people who advise you to stay away I think are right on the money.
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