My ex and I were together a year and half. He left me six months ago becuz he said he could not be with me while I was dealing with some very serious life issues. He has a girlfriend now. I have been making progress in the moving on department but I still love him. He has been saying negative stuff about me the past 6 months behind my back (no this isn't he said she said either because they are usually texts to mutual friends) but I have not responded. I called a meeting btwn us to give him his rings back and to talk about the way he has been talking about me. While I was going off he grabbed me and kissed me. Now he's ignoring me. Please give suggestions of what I should do.
this guy seems weird, I know its very hard but keep up with your moving on. He has a girlfriend and he is kissing and trying to start with you again. So what do you think he would do when he is with you? Don't try it. Guys like this are douche bags he should get kicked in the balls with a cleat. Especially with the shit talking behind your back.
AND above all else you said he left you because you were dealing with some serious life issues?! this is supposed to be the one person who doesn't leave when everyone else does. IT seems pretty simple and clean. I don't know what's so hard for you. I know you love him but he doesn't seem to love even RESPECT you for that matter.
let me put it to you simply,
1. Talked shit behind your back and now trying to make up for it
2. He's not to be trusted he has a GIRLFRIEND and he's trying to talk to you.
3 and the bomb shell = he broke up with you during a time of extreme need.
Fuck this guy. You love him, I realize that. But be a realist. I am a realist. HE may say he loves you, and hey, I don't know maybe he truly does. But he sure is stupid when it comes to showing it, and he doesn't RESPECT you. that's critical.
sounds like he's either really confused, or a creep or both. it's natural to be confused, and he has NOT Helped the situation. still, you need to recognize that he's sending all kinds of mixed messages and that is NOT something you want to get in the middle of again. even if you WERE to talk about getting back together, what kind of a relationship would that be? you need to continue to move on, let him be with his girlfriend and try to ignore him.
He is playing an emotional mind game. He can see you still love him even if you were giving he everything back. I would call the kiss-disrespect for you. He has a girlfriend, run like hell! He is an immature guy who will bring you more heart ache. You deserve better,go get it! There is a guy out there waiting to love you like you deserve. But, first you must let yourself heal. Take care of you first before you give your heart away again! Best of Luck to you!
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