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What do I do about ex's break up and possible cheating?
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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I dated a girl for 2 years, and then told her that I needed some space cos I was trying to get into gradeschool + she kept fighting + wanted marriage. She was very upset afterwards and begged to get back together. I told her everyday that I was there for her as a friend and I'm not leaving until we figure things out. over the next few months, we start seeing each other again and we're pretty much back together. I start driving about an hour to see her every week because she was in a different school and things are well for 2 more years. the marriage topic still caused fights but I was more and more into the idea of committing fully. 2 months ago, she tells me she met someone and that she wants us to just be friends. I keep asking what went wrong and she says things were "sheer bliss"/still "loves me powerfully" but it wasnt going to work. and then she goes behind my back and starts talking shit about me to friends and then proceeds to tell me about the intimate things she wants to do with him. she sleeps with him within a week of being with me but doesn't tell him that we existed (other than as casual friends). she won't admit that this is cheating. and I tried for 2 months to get answers from her. but it comes down to you treated me badly 2 years ago (when I don't knw what I did) and that there was no promise of marriage.

im hurt cos I gave so much during these 4 years expecting very little other than faithfulness. even if an opportunity arose to leave her, I never did cos it never even crossed my mind. I ended up begging her and I feel bad that I didn't just man up, but at the same time we fought a lot over the phone and through emails. where did I go wrong? is she right in all of this?
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derekf714 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Just stay away from her, she's a cheater and if you do one day get married she'll probably cheat on you for some stupid reason. If she really really loved you she wouldn't be messing around with some guy, she's the typical woman when it comes to not knowing what she really wants!
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