1. When we broke up recently - she said she's not looking for someone else - just needs time to herself to figure out her life (having problems dealing with issues such as her father not being in her life by his choice)
2. Calls me almost every night
3. Sexual attraction is still there (had sex twice in one night recently, and it wasn't just FWB (meaningful kisses afterwards and such)
4. Chemistry is there - flirt a lot on the phone and in person
5. When we hang out, usually there's a kiss or two, and of course a kiss goodnight when she leaves
6. She has from time to time, said she loves me when I say it .
7. Most important of all, she hasn't stopped wearing the promise ring (my grandmother's ring) that I gave her almost 2 years ago
The bad
1. Haven't hung out in over a week
2. We're obviously still broken up
3. Sometimes seems she doesn't want to hang out - though I may just be paranoid, I worry a lot :P
Would you say things look pretty good for me? I'm pretty positive they are, but I always like an outside opinion.
Thanks all, sorry about all the questions about this girl, I just really lover her, she's something special.
Update: The flirting hasn't stopped, the calling is still pretty steady, not as often, but she now said she doesn't think it's a good idea for us to have sex. I think she's afraid to fall for me again while she's not ready, so I'll back off and let her come to me
3 months ago
I can say she is a lucky lady! I'm surprised in fact. I normally hear that guys usually lose attraction and dump their girl friends after a physical relationship. But the scenario looks other way round here. according to all that you said, I think you both are doing good with each other and she values you as an asset. do not worry too much. sit back and relax
yes. she's definitely sending mixed signals - especially the part about the ring. Have you just ASKED her what's going on? I know she says she needs time, but has she elaborated? on the one hand, you shouldn't have to wait around for her to "maybe" get back with you, and for her to string you along. on the other hand, sometimes people DO just need breaks. ask her to be specific about the terms of the "break" - maybe you can work something out where you dont' hang out for a certain amount of time, then meet up after to seriously talk about what's going on and make a decision once and for all. she owes you the courtesy of a decision and explanation.
Those really seem like good signs, so I would believe her about really just needing some time. Also, not hanging out/seeming like she doesn't want to aren't necessarily bad, it goes along with figuring things out. Things look really good from what you listed, just show her you'll be there for her and I'm sure things will work out :]
oh yeah those are definitely good signs. she probably still doesn't want a relationship for whatever reason. you probably shouldn't worry though. just give it time
If you give her some space and she doesn't seem like she is making any progress in her life, then what she said isn't what she meant. But if what she said seems like her priority over time, then believe her.
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