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How do I get over being so sad???

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samthan (Age:25 to 29)     When: 3 months ago
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me and my guy were together for 5 years we broke up last night. we both are really sad but it just can't work out between us. how can I get over being so sad. help

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Rafael151 (Age:Over 45)      When: 3 months ago
There is no magic potion. There are tricks that help. But if you could get over it that fast, then was it all you thought it was? Did it really mean that much? As far as I know, the only way is to fill that void with other things and other people, assuming it's really final you are ready to let go move on.
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lefthand (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
Being sad is part of breaking up and it takes time (months is more likely than days) Generally when I have someone end a relationship, I call a friend and sleep with her. It seems to help.
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Just-A-Random-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Be prepared to be sad for a lot longer. Five years together is a really long time, so don't be surprised if you feel this way for a few months. Feelings can't just disappear overnight, but it's a natural to be sad after a break-up. Just keep yourself busy and don't let your mind wonder about the "what-ifs", as it will make you only sadder. Trust me, dude.
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Question Asker I still really love him I am just real sad. I know it going to take time and I am not even sure if it possible to be friends with him. - 3 months ago
 

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bluexxeyes (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
You have to take the time to be sad. Don't try to push it aside because at one point in your life you are just going to have to deal with the hurt and pain from the breakup so you might as well deal with it now. But experts say that it takes half the time you were with the person to fully get over them. So in about 2 1/2 years you will be fully over him. But like I said it is going to be sad and it is going to be hard but you have to deal with the pain just for a little bit.
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