Dumped, three months ago, my ex’s mom wouldn’t allow us see to see each other. He argued with her constantly about me, she didn’t like me, but that’s just a completely different story. He didn’t sense the deep feelings he had for me any longer. But, he also cared about me enough and stayed up all night up until 6 in the morning because I had been shedding tears all night, I was texting him, and I had missed calls up until 5:45 A.M. I haven’t talked to him in 2 ½ months, ever since I blocked his number, I couldn’t under go the pain and the deep feelings that he no longer shared with me anymore. Since he “got sick of missing me” and since “he didn’t feel the same” I contain the wonder to speculate what would happen if I saw him once more. I mean I miss him like crazy, but don’t overlook what I’m saying; I am familiar that we might not be destined for each other. I understand that there is a guy for me out there but…back to what I was saying. What would he do if he saw me again? The last time we were in each other's company I went to his house, he walked directly over to me immediately and I hugged him so tight because I hadn’t seen him it what gave the impression like forever (2 weeks) and he started kissing me and pushing me up against the kitchen counters and we ended up kissing all night at the same time “watching a movie” it was a typical night for us. I refer to “typical” meaning amazing, but normal for us.
His dad caught us making out in the living room I was on top of him at the time and so we weren’t able to see each other. He wasn’t very happy with us, but my ex tried making out with me once more and I said no I don’t want to upset your dad anymore. He understood and he walked me out the door because I was leaving and kissed me goodbye, but it was hard for him to let me go.
One week passed by and he asked his dad if he could spend some time at my house and his dad said, “no I don’t want you two kissing.” My ex freaked out at his dad and told his brothers sarcastically that they can’t kiss until they’re married and at least 30. He was just bummed. A week passed, I was busy with my sports and he was with his and we barely talked on the phone it was pretty much just a text messaging relationship for that 7 days, and he broke it off with me on that Saturday. He “got sick of missing me” and he just “didn’t feel the same anymore.”
The love died. I’m wondering, although I’m still keeping myself occupied, what would happen if he saw me again. Would the memories that we had together possibly flood into his mind? Would he perhaps want me back, or happen to consider it? If you have a response like “time will heal” or “just hold on more guys will come” I don’t need to hear that, I have that in my head already. I want different pieces of advice right now for the reason that this is tugging on my heart, so if anyone knows how to respond this with knowledge, please do. I've been crying for three months everyday. He's my first thought when I wake up.
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I think what ya's parents did to both of ya was very wrong.They are just keeping you two apart when you 2 can really have something going on even if its for a short while.I think your ex.would kiss u,hug you etc.if he saw you again they split you 2 apart and that wasn't fair.I say you both need 2 stay together just don't let the parents know its better ya could c what ya have going.Just don't let no one know and go out to places that should be fun and interesting good luck I hope it works out for both of u.
Hm...why do you think that we would end up hugging and kissing and stuff? Since he said that he "didn't feel the same"...? After all the stuff that happened.. - 2 months ago
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He could say so many things and he did it the first time. - 2 months ago
Ok ladies I wanna know why when your relationship is pretty much down the drain and us guys tell the girl that I think its time we go our separate...
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