Is that the only reason you broke up? It is hard at first but it gets better. Do something nice for yourself and take care of you. Cry, yell, scream. The sooner you have no contact the better and that is easier said then done.
Well, I've been kind of shy with her and may not have been forward enough with her on initiating stuff, but as far as I know, that's the only reason. Yeah, I'm doing my best to let go of it. - 2 months ago
You're going to be hurt. I'm totally guessing that everything you smell, taste, hear, is reminding you of her. Also where did she move? If it's far away from you as in a different state or what not then I can see why you'd have to break up but if it's two hours away or something like that you could make it work. If you really care about her, and your heart is completely hers then you should chase her. Tell her that you won't leave her in your heart, if that's true and you tell her that with meaning you never know this could work out. But for the hurting emotions you need to exercise and make yourself feel good about yourself because she was apart of your life. She was CONNECTED with you and now you have been DISCONNECTED from her. YOUR life is lacking that so you need to do a little you work. Don't do stupid stuff, no drinking, no screwing around with other girls. You can take the easy path and get hurt or you can take the harder path and get stronger and become a more "beautiful" person.
Ha ha - thanks for your input! :) No, I'm not screwing anyone else right now or out drinking! lol I think I grew out of the phase in my mid-20's! Well, she said that we could still see each other, but I've been hurt by not being able to see her like we used to. She moved about 3 hours away w/her parents because she needed a place to stay. I just don't want to go through the hurt again if it doesn't work out, but I'm willing to fight for her if I'm the one she wants to be with. Thanks! - 2 months ago
Hang out with your friends, don't go and get drunk that will only make things worse. Do something that you and your friends enjoy, maybe go to a baseball game or whatever sport you enjoy. Do something that won't make you think of her.
You will hear lots of advice on ways to get over her and move on and for the most part, all of it is wonderful and helpful. You will find the most influential force in your moving on, is time. The passage of it is the only constant you will ever have, and in time you can learn to deal with the pain you feel now. The biggest thing I can tell you is that you should try not feel too bad about things. Look at it this way, you split because of geographic reasons, correct? That is probably the best way to end it! I mean, there was no huge fight, no homicide, etc, etc. But that's just my humble opinion.
Give it time, keep busy, and try to have fun. You have more freedom now, and there are plenty of women out there, when you feel confident enough again to start paying them some closer attention. For now, spend some good time with your friends, and perhaps check out what others have said about breakups on this website. There's some good stuff here.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I'm really nervous around girls, maybe because I never think I'm good enough for them but I'm the kinda guy who needs to gain confidence before I can be myself with a girl and make jokes. Soo I probably wouldn't use a pick-up line I would probably just try and start up a conversation anyway I could. If I had the confidence I would say something like.. Are you single because your beautiful :)
How do they typically respond?
Rejection! haha. well I've never tried a pick-up line on a girl so I don't know if id have any sucess but when I talk to girls thigns don't usually go that well! I guess I'm just not good with girls and I never will be :( butt yehh has anyone got any tips for a guy like me?
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