Should I break up with her now or wait?

Ok I understand being in a relationship with someone who you don't want to be with anymore.trust me. I was about to kick my boyfriend out when he got layed off so I just couldn't break the news to him that I wanted him out! I'm a sucker! Anyway, I would express your feelings to her, if she is that bad with depression seeing a therapist would probably be a good idea on her part. Be as kind as you can when trying to break it to her.

well she really doesn't need to think that the relationship is gonna go on.you have to let her know how you feel or she is gonna think you really like her and is gonna catch more feelings by the simple fact of you comforting her.because you should never lead a girl on thinking you like her when you really want to break it off.you still can be her FRIEND so you can support her but break it off easy like saying I don't think we are gonna work out but I'm still here for you.we still can talk stuff like that a girl appreciates.

No if you break up with her then she will feel she has no support. And I know most people don't wanna deal with those kinda problems.but help her through the rough and then you can see if you really liked her. Besides.if you really loved and cared for her then you would stick with her and help her.good luck [=

I say wait.I suffer from anxiety attacks and depression and I am going through a HARD time right now and if my boyfriend broke up me I would suffer for the rest of my life. I would seriously have trouble trusting people in hard times if he was to do that.my best advice is wait for her to get through a lot of this then kindly break it off.Don't break it off like most guys do.Explain to her why and all that.

Maybe you should wait till she's over with if not all, most of her troubles. Don't add up to her problems now. This should not take that long. Place yourself in her position and you'll understand. All her troubles are temporary, so is yours.

I was in a similar situation, and I made short process of the whole thing. Of course, it's might be an asshole thing to do, but when you reach a certain point, it's hard to even pretend to care (which in my case made matters even worse, both for me and her). So I did what I had to. It was hard, but worth it.

So this is one of those damned if you do, damned if you don't situations.

If the situation is likely to be temporary and things are about to lighten up soon, then you should definitely hang in there. However, she being on pretty strong anti-depressants makes me think that it's not very temporary, and that it's likely you're in for a long and horrible ride if you decide to stay in the relationship. When this storm is over, then a new one might to come along pretty soon after.

It's a good thing that you care, but don't forget to also think about yourself. You might end up actually hating (and hate is a pretty strong word) the girl and everything she stands for, and that's a situation you don't want to be in.

What I would suggest is saying that you don't think that your relationship is going to work, but you can still be there for her if she is down. That way you get out of the relationship, and she gets some comfort.

If you just totally cut the connection you will do some serious damage to that girl's life.