Going insane

Its ok to care for someone, but first you must care for yourself. He is no longer in the same road as you. If you keep reaching for him you will turn your back to the present and the future and you'll not be able to see the opportunities that life can bring at this point. You came here to this site for a reason. Maybe you expect for someone to say some magic words that will make you get back to him, but maybe your actually looking for someone to help you let go. There is no easy way to let go, less can someone do it for you. You need to choose to let go. But remember that when you are letting go, your not alone, your friends and family will be there. I know it ain't much but ill be here for any advice I can give, if anyone can help heal the gaps, well 10,000 or more users are good odds. Hang in there.

Sweetie, take the words of the people here to heart. There is no cure for a broken heart. I'm a psych major, and studies show that women tend to hurt longer over break-ups then men. Basically because men keep themselves busy, and distracted. Women on the other hand tend to talk and dwell in their own misery by talking about it to their friends all the time. Which has them end up suffering longer. So stay busy, with friends and family, or doing things that give you pleasure. You can't make him come back, all you can do is try to move forward.

You keep thinking about all the great traits he possessed. But don't forget you have many as well, and someday you'll find someone who actually adores you for all of them. Feel Better!

try meeting a new guy. their is more out there than just him [=

There's really nothing you can do about your relationship with him.
You should appreciate that he did tell you the truth and didn't drag on the relationship after he didn't feel the same.

What you do need to do is ask yourself whether or not you actually miss HIM or if you miss your relationship with him. Most of the time, the true answer is the latter.

You really shouldn't talk to him because that won't help you get over him and will probably just end up annoying him, after all, he DID tell you that he just didn't feel the same way anymore.

The only thing you really can do about this situation is go out and meet new people. It just takes a lot of time to get over someone, and the memories WON'T go away, especially if you two had a long relationship. Anyways, do you really want to forget all the good times you had? Just remember that it IS in the past, and you need to move on.don't become that obsessive ex.

And it's going to be hard at first, but the more time that passes, the easier it'll get.