okay me and my ex fiance broke up about 4 months ago about 2 weeks ago we had an intimate moment together before it all happened I was sitting next to him and he was talking to his girlfriend on the phone while he was talking to her he was looking at me smiling and doing stuff with his tongue and rubbing his finger tips on the side of my face and having his fingers go through my hair.
whenever I see him alone he will say "hey sweetheart" and give a big hug but when his girlfriend is around he stops himself from giving me a hug and now the other day I found out that his girlfriend is pregnant with his kid and I might be pregnant and it would be his kid and whenever I'm at the place were he lives at when his girlfriend is there he will give her hugs and kiss her and sometimes it drives me nuts but its hard for me not to see him because I still care for him a lot and whenever I hear his voice my heart skips a beet if anyone can help me out here and give me some advice I would really appreciate it
Update: well girl it sounds like he is messing with your head to were you will get mad at him and win him back and that he wants you back
3 months ago
Update: okay yesterday he called me down stairs and said that the girl that he's with now he doesn't think its going to work out between him and her so he asked me if I would take him back
3 months ago
Wait a minute! Hold your horses! This is not a healthy situation at all! You need to get him out of your life ASAP! This is not good for you.my advice is to seek some counseling. Not because I think you're crazy or anything but to help you sort out your options in your head and go at life with some clarity. You should cut this player out of your life immediately, however.
That's all he is: a player. An irresponsible one at that, too. Not even a very good one. Okay, not so much a player as a CLOWN.
Yes, I have some advice for you. Kick this loser to the curb and don't look back except to gather the child support payments.
He is neither committed to you nor the new girl. You are also not blameless in this because he's messing around with you behind the new girls back and you're allowing it to happen. Stop it!
ok well I say this with the most amount of love . but you seriously need to get away from this guy.
I mean firstly he is your EX. You shouldn't really be hanging around him anymore, you should be doing your best to kind of move on.
Secondly is doesn't seem to be a very faithful guy, because YES he does have a new girlfriend, but he is still getting a lot of emotional support from YOU.
Thirdly if he really wanted to be with you . he would BE with you.
So there is nothing really confusing about what his actions are.
I would say stop spending some time with . have this kind of no contact rule going on . where you don't initiate any contact with him for like say a week
And just see what he does.
Give him some space to see if he will come running back to you
If he does . and wants to be with you . then that's good
and if he doesn't . then you are not really any worse off and its time to find someone else
So, you've been sleeping with an ex-fiance who already has a girlfriend who's pregnant by him when you guys only have been broken up for 4 months? Do I need to say more?
She asks a dumb ass question and then comes back to answer her own question pretending to be another person. You got a better answer for her? Go for it. - 3 months ago
I didn't know there would be math questions. - 3 months ago
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THANK YOU nique, finally a person with some"""""LOGIC"""" in their brain!! I see a lot of dumbassity in the world. It is better to ignore and move on, but sometimes, you just can't. At times, it is necessary to stop and laugh on the way. Good for the soul! - 3 months ago
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