Will I ever get over him? How?

He's hard to get over because he paid you a great deal of attention, even if it didn't lead anywhere. Try to overcome your shyness and just talk to guys, even ones you're not interested in. Gradually, it will become easier to talk to everyone. When people find you more approachable, you'll receive more of the attention that you miss from this guy.

I understand ur problem, I kind of have been there quite sometime back. but the hitch is that wen you actually meet more guys, and get attracted to another guy this guy will be automatically thrown outta ur mindas he never reciprocated whatever you felt for him.

The deadlock though, is that you say you are shy. But truly, shyness can be overcome easily, its all about js taking the first step, pref in an unfamiliar environment, try to go to a place where people do not know you and try to be a little bold there. else if you think this simply cannot work out, am sure there are many guys who particularly like shy girls, so that shud not be a problem either. Only thing is pls keep ur eyes open to this world and watch out for the subtle hints that guys make.

gud luck

This is a really tough situation. This guy made you feel really good, and in return he made himself that much more attractive to you. Its fun to flirt, to have a crush and be crushed on. However if you think about how selfish this prick was to make you fall for him just to give himself the pure satisfaction then you will see that maybe these things he did and said for you weren't false they just had no emotion connected to them. I'm sure he wasn't lying to you so use those qualities that you possess and aim them to a new crush. I know you said its hard for you because you are really shy, but that doesn't mean you have to go up to a guy and say "Hey I like you." I just means to have a little fun the next time you're at the coffee shop find some eye candy, make eye contact, or just say hello. Guys love girls who have their confidence just beaming out of them. You have the capability to flirt, you just said so, so now just do it in very non threatening situations (strangers at the coffee shop.) Eventually, (and trust it does take time) you will overcome your connected feelings toward the guy who played with your mind.