Should I give him another chance?

well then I'm sorry to say you were never truly in love. I mean maybe the begging stages of it but not the full blown thing. I have had to deal with seeing the girl I love with another guy and I could deal with kissing and eventually got over it, still in love with her, but where I draw the line is anything past kissing as in oral or full blown sex.

what was the extent of the cheating and how much do you love him?

Forgive him for what cheating on you. If you don't, you'll only bring that baggage to your next relationship. As far as taking him back, UH-UH! Don't do i, especially if he is around the same age as you. Cheating is a sign of immaturity and the desperate need to find whatever it is that that individual is searching for. Why set yourself up to be caught up in that?

I, nor anyone else, can tell you what to do. The ultimate choice is yours, but consider the future. Can you honestly trust him? A relationship without trust or the hope of building trust as a foundation is doomed to fall. Consider it all. I hope this helps.

Hunny, as I always sat "Once a cheater always a cheater!" Even if you love him you will never tru;y believe him when he tells you he is "going out with the guys," cause can you really believe that! My advise would be not to go steady with him stay froends and make him be sad that he would do that to youe. Show confidence and prove that nothing can bring you down. Follow your heart and I hope the best for you!

Ok what you should do is you have to think about this critically everyone makes mistakes but his choice was "to be or not to be" he chose to be a cheater and passed up the chance to be with you. Do what you think is right becuz no one can make this decision for you. But I personally think that you should confront him with your feelings and if something doesn't seem right stay friends and take it from there. I hope that everything works out.

I agree with nusoulmusic. But just by forgiving him doesn't mean that you're not going to take that issue to the next relationship. Be cautious with who you date next time.

Don't take him back. Of course you're still going to have feelings for him. But give your heart some time to heal and move on. You're still very young and there are plenty fish in the sea.

I'd suggest just don't go by ur heart and be all- forgiving to him and give him a chance right away, keep him under observation, though if you really like him so much. make sure he is fully repentant and not a casual liar, after all, a second chance is very expensive and not be thrown away to the undeserving like a piece of garbage, isn't it ? its your heart here, keep it precious.

Listen, if you get back with him just because he said he was sorry, then you are telling him that's it's ok to cheat on you.

Cheating should be a deal breaker because if they do it once, they will do it again.

So ask yourself, is the cheating ok and how much do you value yourself?

You can still like and love someone but that doesn't mean you should be with them. If you have any self worth, you will dump this idiot for good.

Good luck!