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Is he still into me after 5 months

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erinfl14 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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I dated a guy for 2 years and about a week after our 2 year anniversary he told me he wanted to break up because he was not in love with me. This really shocked me but if that is what he wanted so be it. He called me the next day on the phone to tell me that he still loved me and wanted to make the relationship work. I agreed because I did still have feelings for him. A week later he broke up with me a again and told me he wasn't in love with me anymore. At this point I was totally through with him. We have been broken up for about 5 months now. I have had no contact with him. Recently I went to his myspace page to see how he was doing. When I saw his page a picture of me came up linked to a song that he had wrote. The song described how he had lost his best friend and how hard it was for him. So this really shocked the heck out of me and heart was beating really fast. Out of curiosity I went to his facebook profile and he still had a photo album of pictures of me! When we broke up the first thing I did was take down all his pictures. Now he has a song on myspace dedicated to me and still has the photo album of pictures of me up with words under my sweetie and my love. And to make matters worse is that he recently updated his myspace profile and facebook profile! What does this mean? He dumped me and I have moved on has he?

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kstewart10 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Clearly he has not. Something happened that weak, be it pressure of having a relationship that long, or interest from someone else, or possibly being bored in the relationship and wanting a change. Either way, he realizes it was a mistake and the guy has some perseverance to leave it like that this long. If you still love him, maybe you should find out what happened that week that made him act like that, and based on his answer, maybe you two should get together and have coffee or meet for dinner (not drink!) and if things go well and there is still a spark for both of you, then try it out again. But go slow, just dating once or twice a week, don't stay at his place, he doesn't stay at yours, and see what happens. You need to treat it as a new relationship, not a continuation of the last. Maybe he just started looking at the next step and got scared, or maybe he is a psycho and it's a good thing things happened the way they did. Just take your time, there's no rush.
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LoveYourself17 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Sounds like this guy is confused. If you still have feelings for him, sounds like you do, then you should have a talk with him about this. I think it's important to be honest to yourself about what you really want before you make a decision.
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Broken4201 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Maybe he realized that he lost a good thing. If you are over him I don't blame you. It sounds like he was playing games with you and made you go through all the pain of a break up for no reason. He obviously needs help. Maybe he still does love you. He probably played the field for a while and realized that you are the best woman for him.
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11love01 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I think having pictures/songs on myspace or facebook profiles doesn't have to mean anything. Some people usually take off albums and such off these sites when break-ups occur. However, there are some that like to keep it up as memories, or they are just too lazy to take it off. I don't think he is worth your time. If he can tell you that he loves you after the first day of break-up, and tell you that he doesn't again in a week, he is obviously having some mixed feelings. It's best for you to move on, I believe. Sometimes it's really hard for him to suddenly lose you as a girlfriend or best friend, so maybe that's why he has all those albums and songs on myspace and facebook.
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Wow that's so sweet in a way! I'm sorry that you guys broke up, but obviously he is not over you! Think about it, if you had a song specifically dedicated to a guy, and a whole album of his photos, you must have a lot of feelings for that person to be doing that.
It is quite a confusing situation though, as he broke up with you twice. I think you should definitely talk to him, and find out what's going on. I think he might have broken up with you simply because he was confused about his feelings, and that he was unsure of whether he still loved you or not.
Keeping your photos shows that he stills cherishes those memories of you, and he might be upset because you were important to him and now you don't even talk to him anymore. Hope this helped and good luck.
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caitieliscious (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
You should ask yourself whether you really care if he has moved on or not? It is true, for some odd reason guys like what they can't have. However, the fact is you have moved on. If I were you I'd leave him to stare at the pictures of you and him and just be happy with the life you're in now!
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I wouldn't take him back. It would just go back to getting together and breaking back up. Guys just want girls that they know they can't have. After you moved on he probably thinks you'll take him back again. You could try messaging him asking why he hasn't taken off the pictures. Then if he tells you that he's interested you can tell him that sorry but he had his chance and that you've moved on. Unless you really like him and want him back. But in my opinion he isn't worth taking back.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
okayy boys have weird wayss.
he probably hasn't moved on.
but knows you have.
&& that's why he wants you back.
forget about him.
your better than that.
coming from this situation
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