Getting dumped five months ago is still evidently affecting my life. My ex boyfriend’s mom wasn’t too fond of me; that’s a different story. My ex and his mom fought about me constantly. He didn’t sense the deep feelings he had for me any longer. Since I had been crying all night, he cared about me enough to stay up until 5 in the morning, I was texting him. I had missed calls up until 5:45 A.M. I haven’t talked to him in 4 months, ever since I blocked his number, I couldn’t under go the pain & the deep feelings that he no longer shared with me. Since he “got sick of missing me” & since “he didn’t feel the same” I contain the wonder to speculate what would happen if I saw him once more. Don’t overlook what I’m saying; I am familiar that we might not be destined for each other. Is it actually over?
The last time we were in each other's company I was at his house, he walked directly over to me & hugged me so tight because I hadn’t seen him in 2 weeks. He started kissing me & pushing me up against the kitchen counters. We ended up kissing all night at the same time “watching a movie” it was a typical night for us, meaning amazing, but normal for us. We were spooning while we were watching the movie & he wouldn’t let me go throughout the whole night. He was staring at me for a really long time & I looked at him & said, “What’s wrong are you okay?” he said “I’m going to miss you so much,” & held me even tighter & started making out with me.
When I was about to leave, his dad saw us making out. I was on top of him at the time; he was upset. My ex tried making out with me once more once his dad left & I said I don’t want to upset your dad anymore. He understood & walked me out the door & kissed me goodbye, but it was hard for him to let me go. One week passed by, he asked his parents if he could spend some time at my house. His mom said yes, his dad said no, he was upset & called me we talked all night. A week passed, & we were busy with sports. It was just a texting relationship for that week, & he broke it off with me on that Saturday.
The love died off between us. I’m wondering, what would happen if he saw me again? Did he forget about how much we loved each other seriously? He would call me every night after we were together, and tell me he misses me so much, I could tell it in his voice. Would the memories that we had together possibly flood into his mind? When is it truly over, or is it? He was my best friend & I miss him like crazy. If you have a response like “time will heal” or “just hold on more guys will come” I don’t need to hear that, I have that in my head already. I’m keeping myself occupied. I’ve done everything I can do. I’ve done stuff with other guys, and even though I’m not dating him anymore I still felt like I was cheating on him. It’s hurting me so bad. I want different pieces of advice right now for the reason that this is tugging on my heart, so if anyone knows how to respond this with knowledge or experience, please do.
Just to give you the news, guys do have a tendency to easily forget memories.Take me for example---dated a gal for 4 years, then she broke it off as she found another guy. First 2 weeks was depressing but then I got myself to go on other dates, and then next thing I knew, all the memories we created, well, gone. Simple as that. Fun while it lasted but life moves on. I think women are a bit more emotional but maybe this guy can also easily forget like I did.
I met him like a year ago and though he was engaged, he sometimes would flirt a bit with me when he got drunk. Now that he's asking to hang out...
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