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I want him back and I miss him alot. how can I get him to realize that we're ment to be?

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ladybug87 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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well my ex boyfriend and I met 2 years ago at a church and after that we kinda lost touch which I wish we didn't . then this year we started talking again and we started dating. than he broke up with me like 4 weeks ago. he broke up with me because he saw me as a friend and only a friend. even though we were so happy being together(more than friends). we still talk on the phone and I always call him. but he doesn't mind that.but he never calls me and I kinda want him to. I haven't seen him since we broken up. because he doesn't live where I live and we were fine not living in the same town. until he started having those stupid doubts. I still have faith in he & i. I still feel like we're ment to be. one nite he said to me on the phone it would be nice to see you again. I kinda do know what he ment and I kinda dont. that could ment a lot of things. I was his first girlfriend and he is going off to college. but I want him back and I don't know if he misses me. should I stop calling him and if I do I don't want to loose touch like we did 2 years ago. he isn't seeing anyone and he didn't say anything about seeing other people when he broke up with me. I don't know what to do I need help

Update: i have told him how I feel and it really didn't change him much. I don't think!    3 months ago

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kevin-camron (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
look from my experience its hard to keep a relationship which is a first time ,like he might wanna explore little more,and date other girls ,but what the hell surprise him like with something he enjoys,then tell him how you feel,make him feel comfortable and safe around you,it should work he ain't a japanese robot huh?
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thecougar04 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I would maybe stop calling him for a few days. let it soak in a little and see if he misses you. if he doesn't call then go ahead and call him. keep in contact but don't make it too clingy where he feels like he has you wrapped around his finger for whenever he wants you. hopefully by continuing to talk to him and be a good friend he will realize what he is missing and come running back someday.it may not be soon, it may be when you stop talking to him altogether that he realizes this but only time will tell.
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Broken4201 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Well you have two choices: you could either tell him that youa re still in love with him or you could just let him get away from you. If you truly do think he is the one for you then you need to tell him that and see what he says. Good luck.
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Bo-Belli (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Something I learned from my recent break up is that you CANNOT make anyone realize what you think you realize. If you are meant to be together then let him realize this on his own. My ex told me that he loved me but that he was not "in love" with me. What this meant is that he loved me and cared for me only as his first girlfriend and not the person he saw himself spending the rest of his life with. That hurts a lot so I know what you are going through. Don't set yourself up for something that you are unsure about and don't let him lead you on because you will be the one getting hurt in the end. If he said that he liked you as a friend then he only likes you as a friend. If you have any doubts then just ask him to be up front with his feelings, either he wants you or he doesn't. The fact that he does not call you should tell you a lot. Why should you be the one to call him all the time? If he just wants to be friends then stop calling him for right now until you have moved on. Show him that you can be without him for a while and see what he does for a change.
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Inkweaver2 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Don't stop calling him. Maybe stop calling him as much if you call him a lot, but don't stop.

Still, don't wait for him. Move on like their is no chance you'll ever be more then friends again. It will be much healthier for you.
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God is writing your love story, let him read it to you.
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