My boyfriend broke up with me in January. I think about him everyday. We keep in touch and are friends and hang out when he is around. I know he will never come back to be a couple with me again. He likes change and I think he just got bored with me. He has made me feel like I am not good enough for him. I know that this is not true, but it really bothers me because in high school everyone always told me how I was to good to be with him that he was a jerk. I did not think of him this way, he treated me like a princess and I thought that we the best relationship. There were other guys that told me to dump him but I didn't want to because I really thought that he was the one. I still do but since it's just me that thinks this there is no use. I think towards the end he was trying to make me mad so that I would break up with him since he broke up with me once before that and then we got back together. I think if we truly would have tried things would have worked out but I think he just wanted something different because he knew me so well.
We were together a little over 2 years. I have gone out with about 5 guys since the break up. They all treated me like a princess to but I think the problem is that I am not over him yet. I still love him so much. I know I have to move on and I am, but it is so hard. I feel like moving to a different state to start all over since there are too many memories here. We went away to school last year and I had an awful time trying to adjust and I don't know if that was what pushed him away. On top of that I had so many horrible things happening to my family I had a hard time dealing with and I think I may have become too clingy. I wished he would have understood what I was going through. He had no idea how bad it really was. I moved back home which was kind of embarrassing because some of my friends told me he would dump me once we got away at school. They were right, Since the break up I have become a very confident person and can live without a boyfriend in my life right now. A couple of the guys I have dated asked me to be their girlfriend but I'm not ready yet. I am having fun with this one guy right now, he is so nice and we have gone out 5 times already. He has really taken my mind off my ex boyfriend. He is so sweet and caring. He may be the one that gets me to stop thinking about my ex boyfriend since when I am with him my ex doesn't pop in my mind like he has on other dates I have been on. Since I have been single I can't believe the amount of guys that are interested in going out with me. I really hate it though. Some girls find it fun, but I don't.
Even when I was with my ex I would get hit on all the time and by some really hot guys but I was so in love with my ex I didn't care who hit on me I wasn't interested. Now when I look back I think how stupid I was. Some of those guys were really nice and hot too! I wish we would get back together I am so much more mature and would not be clingy but I know I must move on.
It sounds like you already answered your question. If you feel confident about yourself and this new guy makes you feel great and doesn't make you think about your ex. then what's the problem. Spend more time with this dude! Make something work between you and him. Although DON'T think he is your past. He will never be the one that you felt for. He is someone new that is trying to understand you. It is unfair to anyone if they are already labeled or compared to the last person. Forget what you have done with your last ex and make something new. This is the process of recovering from a broken heart.
Very important! If you feel that this isn't the guy for you though. Tell him straight up. Don't play games. And Don't give him hope-- hope can drive a man crazy and then hurts later.
because that has happened to me. Hope made me and still is making me crazy. :(
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